My Ex gf finally told me that we were done for good after talking about us possibly getting back together since july. We had broken up 4 or 5 times for stupid reasons like her calling to much or me not calling enough. I had also cheated on her in the relationship twice and even though she knew she never addressed it with me. After the second time i knew it was wrong and never did it again for the next 1 1/2 yrs of our relationship. now she is 18 andim 21 and she says we are done for good. I think it may just be that she is mad and that she wants her freedom and to look around. But do you think you can love someoen for 3 yr 10 months and just finally one day figure out that you never want to give them another chance? can she really be done with me after all that we have been thru. I tried to kill myself over her and herself over me. We have cried, dealt with passing of family, i took her virginity, we lit up eachothers hearts. Does all that go away because of 2 mistakes. Is there hope?
2006-12-26 08:33:21 · 15 answers · asked by Bman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is always hope if you both want it. I have been with my husband for 6 years, and we have been through alot, but we are both fighting through it so we are still toghether. There were some times that we both wanted to call it quits but we stuck together when we didnt really want to and now its better then ever.....There is hope, but only if you both want it to work.....Good Luck!
2006-12-26 08:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by kissedwithpeace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say men but theres no help for u u made the mistake and now look at you now u wish u wouldnt had done that and you guys will still be together. But the best thing is to move on and the next realtionship u have dont make the same mistake u did in the last one learn from it
2006-12-26 08:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by LifesJourney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feelings just don't go away, but the aggrevation of dealing with you does. How could you cheat on her, and expect her not to be done with you. I was with my ex for a little over three years, and he cheated on me one time, and I left him. We had been through a lot more than what yall have, plus birthing a child. So, yeah, I walked away, and I don't blame her either.
2006-12-26 08:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love can die after any amount of time...both of you sound like you need help...no one is worth killing yourself for...just remember, in the end all you have is yourself. Get some professional help and move on, it will be way healthier in the long term. Love has no rules so don't try and follow any
2006-12-26 08:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like u have a very bad sitition Sry ur messed up Maybe she's ready 2 move on or something
2006-12-26 08:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by BigBallerGurl2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably f*&@ed it up already. When you ruin a relationship like that it's harder to work at it. Maybe she met someone who treated her as she wanted. My advice is to give her, her space. Maybe you just need to learn from that and move on. If you were meant to be together one day you will.
2006-12-26 08:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by SugarCookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like the problem is more than "2 mistakes" definitively is much more. Good luck.
2006-12-26 08:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might not have been true love. if it didnt work, its not meant to be, theres someone else for u. but just let her be and try to move on, if u guys get back together ok, but dont push it. enjoy ur life while ur young. and it doesnt show u love someone by cheating on them btw. so i wouldnt suggest doing that again.
2006-12-26 08:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro I've went thru the very same thing you went thru, do not punish yourself anylonger, your young you'll look back on this someday and Laugh
2006-12-26 08:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people realize that they have no feeling for the other person in the relationship for the fact that they realize everything that has happened. MAybe she needs her space..
2006-12-26 08:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by NENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋