What things can i do to take it out of my head?
2006-12-26 08:25:20 · 25 answers · asked by Mermaid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ewww thats really gross, honestly you should probably either understand why he did, or get rid of him. talk to him about it if you want to get it out of your head.
2006-12-26 08:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by Uriah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I know this might seem crazy but buy you a Nitendo Wii. I had the same problem. Well not the same problem but I had to deal with my boyfriends SUSPOSED TO BE EX GIRLFRIEND calling his house all day. Then one I saw her walking down the street I wanted to beat her down right then and there but I went over my cousin house. He had a Nitendo Wii. Girl there as is boxing game on there that you can play to releave yourself from a lot of pressure. All I could think about was that girl calling my mans house and I went stong cold crazy. The next thing I know was I was swinging and punching everywhere.
I know that may sound crazy but I really works... At least you want get in trouble or have to go to jail...
2006-12-26 08:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by lisababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First about incest. If it is first cousin it is. Now about cheating. How long have you been going steady? What occurred to qualify cheating. How old are you and your boyfriend? You sound very young. If you are you will be over him before you read this. In a mature relationship there must be trust.
2006-12-26 09:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn!!! foul play. Love him or not, u should walk away and find a new boyfriend. There is no excuse for cheating and you shouldn't have to deal with it. I understand that everyone deserves a second chance, but a cheater is a cheater for life, so u're only giving YOURSELF a second chance to get hurt again. He cheated on you with his COUSIN, what makes u think he won't move up on the food chain? good luck!!!
2006-12-26 08:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by tmngo2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will forgive him, and focus your attention on positive things in your life--such as your friends, family, career, etc. Being cheated on hurts, I know, but if you dwell on it longer than you should, you'll never begin to heal. Seek comfort from friends. And if you believe in God, pray for strength.
You're strong and capable of turning this unfortunate situation into something positive that will help you become a better person for the rest of your life.
2006-12-26 08:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sean B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is all inside your head
She said to me
The answer is easy if you
Take it logically
I’d like to help you in your struggle
To be free
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover
She said it’s really not my habit
To intrude
Furthermore, I hope my meaning
Won’t be lost or misconstrued
But I’ll repeat myself
At the risk of being crude
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover
You just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don’t need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don’t need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free
She said it grieves me so
To see you in such pain
I wish there was something I could do
To make you smile again
I said I appreciate that
And would you please explain
About the fifty ways
She said why don’t we both
Just sleep on it tonight
And I believe in the morning
You’ll begin to see the light
And then she kissed me
And I realized she probably was right
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover
2006-12-26 08:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by love2travel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be thankful that you found out about this before marriage. Think of it as a blessing instead of a personal insult. Heaven Knows, that you don't want some sick Incest pervert in your life. Dump him.
2006-12-26 08:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better off alone. What he did is disgusting and if you continue to stay with him that will always be in the back of your mind. Move on and find someone else who thinks that family is just family and thats it..
2006-12-26 08:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by NENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK that's weird.
Don't think you're going to be able to get over it.
I'd have to say the best thing to do (for yourself) is to move on....as quickly as possible.
Tell him you can't get over it and that sleeping with his cousin is definitely a deal breaker for you.
2006-12-26 08:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get rid of him. If he'll cheat on you w/ his cousin then he'll cheat on u with anyone. That's how you take it out of your head.
2006-12-26 08:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by Candi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
are you still with him?? I hope NOT! just try to move on, go out with your friends, keep your mind occupied focus on positive and stay away from a man like that He WILL do it again!!
2006-12-26 08:30:23 · answer #11 · answered by mamachula01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋