first two werent that bad???
2006-12-26 08:23:54 · 9 answers · asked by tunachunks199 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sorry to hear that TIA.It did get better for me but took 5 years. I wish you all the best aswell.
2006-12-26 08:30:06 · update #1
papaz71 sorry to hear that, but it gives me hope knowing that in the end you do get there.aint life c**p
2006-12-26 08:55:05 · update #2
It could be that your age or situation at the time kept you from the full effect of grief. It doesn't really matter though. You have experience the loss now and you've had to begin the healing process. Look for things you can do to honor your mum. Special occasions, meals etc. You'll end up at a place of peace in time. My mom passes thirteen years ago. It took about seven to reach a place of contentment. God bless you.
2006-12-26 08:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by papaz71 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I to lost both my parent´s my mother died in January of this year, I have to say we all deal with the loss of our loved one´s in many different way´s , so far I have coped, simply because my mum has never left me I carry her in my heart, and she said, no matter what, always be happy , so that´s what I do, in time thing´s get better, live goes on be strong , think of all the good time´s you had with your mum, that´s one thing that will always make you feel better inside yourself , hope thing´s get better for you, Happy New Year 2007
2006-12-26 22:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing can replace this loss especially at festive times, is there anything that your mum always wanted you to do like a hobbie or something that would make her smile? Or write some nice poems about her you will be suprised with what you come up with it is something that you can create that is personal to you both, and can read in times of despair.... god bless
2006-12-27 00:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by BettyBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first couple of years you can still hear her voice and smell her per fum and see her face if you close your eyes and then time moves on and your memory is not as good and you want to pick up the phone and hear her say I love you and you wonder will it ever get better ?will the pain ever dull? I don't know my daddy just died in February and my heart is still in pieces .I feel for you .god bless you ..
2006-12-26 08:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was shock and delayed grief? My Mum died suddenly 7yrs ago and i was inconsolable for 3yrs, it has got easier slowly and time does heal but keep at it, remember the times you had, cry when it suits you. She may not be with you in body but its comforting to know she is in mind. Good luck andtake care.
2006-12-26 08:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by china doll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grieving process takes on many stages now u need to to cry and look back at photos and look back on all the fine memories u had together
2006-12-26 08:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becaus it did not sink in until then prolly, and u just started feeling the loss after all of the surrealness left u ( i dont know if im explaining this right lol) but i am aweful sry for ur loss but it will get better:>) hang in there:>)
2006-12-26 08:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain never ever stops,,it just gets easier to manage
2006-12-26 08:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine got killed when i was 16yrs. old.......
I'm 38yrs. old now.....
still haven't got over it......
but when i was 33yrs. old i was told to go to
grief therapy.....but never did.....
just live my life around my kids, and deal with it......
2006-12-26 14:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋