this guy i was w/for 6 months moved 2 FL n i havent seen him n a yr. he's been promisin 2 visit me n everything, but never followed through on ne of em. he asked me if i lost my virginity, i sed yes. now he keeps throwin in hints dat he wants 2 sleep w/me. i told him it's not happenin n now he wont respond 2 me or nething. we were supposed 2 hang out b4 he leaves, but after i told him i wasnt sleepin w/him, he told me he didnt know if he's gonna b able 2 c me. im gonna tell him 2 lose my # n find sum1 else 2 mother his children cus he's tellin me he wants me 2 b da mother of his kids. also, he's all upset cus im talkin 2 another guy now & i dont have time 4 his games. am i wrong?
2006-12-26 07:54:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
& 2 make things worse, im 19 & he's 23!
2006-12-26 07:58:46 · update #1
You made the right decision. You don’t have to time to play with his mind games. Besides, by the looks of it he only seems to want to sleep with you, and when you told him you weren’t, he tried to manipulate by telling you he wasn’t so sure if he could come and see you.
I think you did the right thing and you won’t be regretting it, you deserve better!
Yes, tell him to get lost and that you aren’t interested in sleeping with someone who’s only interest in you is to sleep with you. Tell him to take his boyish/childish games else where because you are not going feel sorry for him or be manipulated into doing something stupid with him and then end up regretting it down the road.
Yes, get rid of him he's dragging you down.
2006-12-26 08:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by UnknownJaneDoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are ready to give up on this guy, but you are probably still pondering whether or not you should lose the guy since you posed this question. And what a line...wants you to be the mother of his chn. He hasn't been interested enough to stay in touch so I doubt he's legit. He sounds like a player. I wouldn't bother telling him to lose my number or anything else....I'd let him get that message when I failed to return his calls. Good Luck
2006-12-26 08:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but this whole situation sounds childish...What kind on real man asks if your a virgin then asks to sleep with you..Just that alone is a reason to never speak to his *** again..I am not even going to get in to everything you said I will just make my point, which is have enough respect for yourself to never be with a guy that is that childish and stupid and obviously has no respect for you or women...I wouldn't think twice I would forget he even exists!
2006-12-26 08:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 18:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. I believe that your strategy is correct. Keeping flaky, irrespoinsible people in your life who routinely make promises without following through causes a lot of pain, frustration and disappointment. You will be much better off removing yourself from him and this entire situation and pursue relationships and connections with more serious people - those people who see you when they say they will and who give you the basic courtesy that you deserve.
Thanks.
Arkady Itkin
www.PracticalHappiness.com
2006-12-26 07:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by PracticalHappiness.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong for giving the boot. Only wanting to see you so he can sleep with you? Wanting you to be the mother of his children that are not yours? What took you so long to boot his butt already. This guy is a jerk.
2006-12-26 08:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT AT ALL!!!
In fact, you are very smart. Stay smart. Don't give in to his trickery. It sounds like he's fishing, to see if you like him enough or have low self-esteem enough to give him what he wants because he's threatening (backhandedly maybe) to cut off contact with you otherwise. Don't fall for it. It doesn't sound like you will, but I wanted to encourage you anyway. You are right on the money.
2006-12-26 07:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is not playing games you are.
He wants to have a real sexual relationship with you. A relationship without sex is only a friendship.
Yet you are sexually active and are talking to some other guy, you are playing games here not him.
2006-12-26 07:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by bluto blutarsky2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, forget about him it sounds like he only wants to have sex with you because you let him know that someone else beat him to the cookie jar now he wants to have kids he sounds like my ex let that go! If he don't loose your number act like when you see his its invisible!
2006-12-26 08:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Lise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you made the right decision and claps for you move on to a better guy
2006-12-26 07:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by *meggie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋