do or achieve something that makes them jealous.
2006-12-26 07:39:02
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answer #1
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answered by ConstElation 6
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Ask yourself WHY you're "jealous" and work on the causes and conditions in your own mind that make you feel that way. Nobody else can really make you feel jealous but you. Jealousy is about wanting something that someone else has, but you don't in some form or another. But why is it that you want that item or person? Maybe it/they REALLY WOULDN'T bring you all the happiness you think it would, after all nothing always brings happiness forever, eventually it will fall apart and cause you suffering and people don't live forever and many don't bring you happiness forever either from their side of self-cherishment.
If you want true happiness and freedom from your suffering make sure you look at things as they really are. Sometimes you might realize things aren't all a "green" as they seem on the other side of the fence.
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2006-12-26 15:43:29
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answer #2
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answered by vinslave 7
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Jealousy in what sense?
Jealousy can be a good thing. If you're jealous of anothers possessions, jealousy is an excellent motivator to get out there and do what you have to do to obtain it for yourself. Or, you could just pray for it.
2006-12-26 15:42:59
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answer #3
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answered by Kalia 3
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A jealous person hurts oneself more than hurting others!!jealousy is a worst emotion just like hate !!!
Also i have read that 'the best punishment for a jealous person is to let him/her feel jealousy'
Now the advise is 'start loving yourself'..think yourself so much important , not letting anything effecting you negatively..You should have respect and love for yourself in a way that you don't allow anything hurting you especialy the worst emotion jealousy !!See you are special for yourself so why should you let this enemy to overcome you??Jealousy is your enemy, just feel it a solid things which is about to damage you and your personality..Don't let it do this,because you are strong !!!
handle it like an enemy !!
and secondly when you feel that this negative emotion is about to takeover you, Just start prayering for the person whom you are jealous with.it will work .just give it a try!!
All the best !!!
2006-12-26 15:50:34
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answer #4
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answered by Anonymous
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Hard to say without more specifics.
If it's just material stuff that's pointless. If it's about another's abilities, or comparing self to another that's easy.
Don't invalidate yourself ! You have the strength and power to create and do, and from this comes the things you want to have.
Not the other way around.
If you just get things without any contribution or create it won't make you happy for very long or give you much pleasure.
So no reason to be jealous really.
2006-12-26 16:47:09
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answer #5
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answered by thetaalways 6
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High self-esteem! I've never been jealous of anyone or anything in my life! I think it's because I'm over confident, I think my sh!t don't stink, I'm vain so all and all I guess I'm just a concede
B!+ch! I'm a red headed, Fiery Aries that thinks she's the bomb and everyone else is merely a firecracker! Because I am one Gorgeous Black Woman! Oh I forgot! I'm smart too!
No brag, just facts!
So from the words of Cher from the movie Moonstruck "SNAP OUT OF IT!"
2006-12-26 15:36:24
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answered by Anonymous
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Building confidence in yourself is key. Keep in mind that jealousy is a wasted emotion. It benefits no one and doesn't earn you any brownie points with your significant other.
2006-12-26 15:36:35
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answered by sleepingliv 7
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Pray for the person to whom your jealousy is directed.
2006-12-26 15:44:47
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answered by timjim 6
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think about what is the worst thing that could happen, and what you would do in that situation. If it hasn't happened yet, don't worry about the possibility of it happening, that's just a waste of your thoughts.
Find something productive to do with yourself.
2006-12-26 15:35:41
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answer #9
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answered by cadillacrazy 4
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Focus on your life. Donot look at others and what they have.Nor have hatred in your heart towards anyone. Wish for others the good you'll want for yourself.
2006-12-26 15:36:13
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answered by Simplicity 4
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Bullets
2006-12-26 15:33:53
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answered by Anonymous
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