Well he wanted to be friends with benefits, but I broke it off because I have feelings for him and want more. But he still talks to me and acts like friends even though I won't sleep with him any more. So what should I do? I'm thinking if I stick around and be friends with him maybe he'll want to be more? Maybe he just needs some time to ease into it? I don't understand why since he is attracted to me and he likes me, why not just be a couple? I really like him a lot so it also hurts a lot that he doesn't want more. So anyways I'm just confused about what I should do. Thanks!
2006-12-26 07:00:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is PLAYING on your heart strings don't let him you will only get hurt and why stop living life over one guy there is alot of fish in the sea been there done that not fun
2006-12-27 23:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its hurting you more now being friends him after you had sex because its sound like you love him but I don't think he loves you, he likes you but doesn't love you otherwise he would want a relationship.
The more you are with him the more hurt you are going to feel.
This might be hard, but I think you should spend less time with him, distance yourself from him for awhile and try date other people. Either he will realize what he missing without you and will want a relationship or he will go his separate way, atleast then you wll know either he really cares for you or just used you for sex.
Hope you get your answer soon.
2006-12-26 15:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok lol i understand you like him a lot and all.. but you have to understand that because of these strong feelings for him, you're blocking out reality.. you're living in a fantasy bubble thinking he's gonna wanna start something up with you, if youstick around. But you're wrong. He sees you as an easy pass, ..if he cared about you, and liked you back the same way you did, he wouldn't wanna take advantage of ur feelings like that. i say ditch him, get over it, you'll find some1 better... seriously, think about it..do you really want fight for some1 who may never feel the same way back? No. because you'll be wasting your time.. and hurting only yourself.
2006-12-26 15:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by uglyyyyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not want a relationship with you...
He wants to have sex...that's it!
Well I mean I'm sure he likes you but nothing more!
I'm sorry for you but if he wanted a relationship he would have acted different...
Reduce your contact and date other men and find your perfect match! But this guy isn't good for you!
Good luck
2006-12-26 15:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with friends w/ benefits . Not a big deal these days.
2006-12-26 15:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't think like girls. For most guys sex doesn't equal possible relationship - its just sex. If he doesn't want you as a girlfriend then find another guy who does and you'll be better off for it!!!!
2006-12-26 15:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants sex.. Find someone who wants to be a couple and move on.
2006-12-26 15:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lay down and spread your legs. That is what you should do.
2006-12-26 15:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by fireman4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you asked him??? just be honest with him.
2006-12-26 15:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋