Last night me and my boyfriend were on the phone, and he told me his cousin was sleeping over. I didn't mind at first, up until he started acting really wierd (like breathing heavy, making wierd noises etc..) I definately got suspicious by the way he wasn't really conversating, but rather asking me simple things that I would answer to.He is always talkative and by the sounds he would make (it sounded like he wanted to moan but was holding it in) Sorry for the info but to be honest he was acting the same way as when I give him oral sex. I couldn't sleep last night because, I just kept thinking about it.
I don't know how he would do that to me, but especially with his COUSIN! It makes me sick that they could be so disgusting, and immoral. I just can't belive it!
I know men will take the pu s s y that gets handed to them, but I wonder if she provoked him. I am almost 100% sure that they did do something whether it was oral sex or any other type of sexual activity.
2006-12-26
06:58:34
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Does anyone know of a similar situation as mine? And how did the person cope?
Also a couple questions for men:
Would you do something of that nature with your COUSIN?
Do you guys see it wrong & immoral, or is it just pu S S y?
I'm so sad. :(
2006-12-26
07:00:06 ·
update #1
Yes i actually met her yesterday. That slut!
2006-12-26
07:03:20 ·
update #2
Maybe hes lying to you and its not his cousin. Maybe its his other girlfriend
2006-12-26 07:01:20
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answered by aligrespeq 3
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Sweety, maybe the cousin was a cover up for another women to sleep over. If he is sleeping with his cousin then he is a sick man that needs help. I am sorry about this, but life has some weired and unexpected twists. I think it is a personal turn on for him and the other whore to talk to a girl while getting oral sex or any other type of sex. she may have coaxed him into phoning you for her own sexual pleasure or dominant reign over you. It could be a power thing for him or her. Free yourself from this situation and move on. This is the best and most healthiest way of doing things in this situation. Good Luck
2006-12-26 15:09:47
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answered by george 4
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What you are saying is not at all uncommon...many places now accept cousins even 1st cousins marrying. It is a fact that children of even first cousins have no more birth defects than children of those who are completely unrelated...if you care to research it out.
Now as to the "cheating" portion of your question. Unless you and he are married, he really isn't cheating on you. And if you wish to carry it further, in old times, a man, even a married man, could have sex with any single or unmarried woman he wanted as long as it was not forced. (rape). It was not considered cheating...today people think they own someone they are dating this simply just isn't true. You do not own him and he does not own you. What you do and what he does should have no effect on the other. What more people need to do is to understand polyamory and forget this "cheating" word. I know you probably won't read the two web sites I have listed, but it might explain some things to you and help you a lot...
2006-12-26 15:23:18
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answered by pinelake302 6
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1st of all, if he is having any type of sexual relations with his COUSIN, he is straight nasty. But you need to check the family tree. Do some research & get the credentials. Is she really a cousin or just a close friend of the family he likes to get with every now and then. Kick his stupid tail to the curb & get someone with a moral compass.
2006-12-26 15:11:16
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answered by Extr3m3leySexxee 2
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Have you met this cousin? How do they act in front of you and how old are they? Does sound weird to me too, but don't jump to conclusions. If you find this to be true... run, don't walk, away. It's sick.
2006-12-26 15:02:00
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answered by notfreeinnh 3
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Wait a minute. All this was going on while you were ON the phone? Whatever it is she was doing, or HE was, maybe, doing to himself thinking about it-- is NOT cool. In fact it's really disgusting. New Year, new guy.
2006-12-26 15:05:14
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answered by INDRAG? 6
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are u absolutely sure??? I am mean dam he could of just be on the phone tired or something u never know until u have evidence
2006-12-26 15:02:09
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answered by TheArtistFormalyKnowAsSlavemaker 1
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are you sure that this is really happening? how do you know? are they really *cousins*?
You need to figure these things out and don't go jumping to conclusions.
2006-12-26 15:02:39
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answered by Juicy 3
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I'm so so sorry that that happened to you! You aren't still dating him right? If you are then dump him immeaditley!
2006-12-26 15:02:48
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answered by ♥ Sydd 4
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OMG! wow. thats fuking messed up. awww im really really sorry hun. like someone else said are you sure its his cousin!? if so ask him whats up!? thats really really messed up if he did anything like that to you.
2006-12-26 15:11:10
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answered by Anonymous
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