guys in previous relationships of mine and friends has only interested those guys buy our looks once they found someone they thought was hotter they move on . why do guys think we are a piece in their game.
2006-12-26 06:55:26 · 25 answers · asked by rockinbeauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they don't have good personalities when they are awake. So we have to have something...thats looks.
2006-12-26 06:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by behr28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, but please allow me to say "them" this time. They think they are better than anyone, and they deserve the best, the problem is that their hearts are so blinded that they rely only in their natural eyes.
There is nothing wrong with going for the looks, after all it is the first thing we can evaluate, but as the relationship develops, they need to be more appreciative of the real values inside the girls. If they weren't so blinded, they would discover an unending wealth of beauty that, once married, and the wife getting chubby, that won't diminish the love for her.
The fact that boys go for the looks only, is (I think) one of the main reasons for divorce.
So, Girls, this is something to watch out for, don't listen to soft words, but to their actions, don't rush to intimate relationships, there will be time for that. Be wise when choosing your boyfriend. You girls have a dignity nobody has the right to step on.
Don't close your heart to the posibility of happiness, you will find it. There are still many guys that are worth their weight in gold, you just need to look hard.
God Bless you and grant you wisdom.
2006-12-26 07:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are trained to do so in our culture. A majority of them respond to this training.
My suggestion is nerds, not dweebs. See that, girls also date for looks not personality. Nerd is someone who is technically excellent in something, a dweeb is someone who is average in capability, except for grotesque levels of social dysfunction.
Most of the women that I know who are married to nerds, are very surprised by how well they adapt to pursuing and understand them, providing well for their needs, and being very genuine and committed.
Im sorry that you had your heart broken and were not valued as you properly deserve. It would be great if that never happened, but it does. :(
DOH stats say that only about 25% of guys are dogs, but that 80% of girls are getting with those 25% of guys.
My friend told me that in her high school the guys made a list ranking all the girls in the school from most desirable to least. Consciously or not everyone makes a list like that. If you are dealing with dogs, then your likely focusing in on the wrong 25% of that list, and might find significant profit by looking at how you make your choices, and choosing differently.
2006-12-26 07:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about what happened to you,
About you question, I will that there are lots and lots of guys in the world and these guys can be placed in different categories;
Some guys (not most guys) would start a relationship with girls because of their looks just as some girls would start a relationship with guys because of how rich the guys is.
whilst others would start a relationship because of other reasons; for instance because of the understanding nature, kindness, patients etc. of the one they are attracted to.
It is quite unfortunate that you had to go through such an experience.
2006-12-26 07:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by Blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because many young guys are more interested in sex than relationships. Especially when they're somewhat successful at getting it.
If it bugs you, seek out shyer guys who don't get a lot of female attention. They more often DO want a relationship and are more likely to respect you.
PS. Also, what Curly said.
2006-12-26 07:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a lot of guys, it is a social status. They hotter the girl, the more popular it will make the guy. Find a shy guy. They won't jump from girl to girl.
2006-12-26 07:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like the status symbol of being with a hottt girl. I don't like it anymore than you do, and I'm attractive too. They feel "manly" with a fine looking gal on there arm and it also believe it or not makes other women check him out too, b/c we think hmm...wonder what she see's in him. He must have something. Guys by nature or stimulated by visual beings. It's unfortunate b/c think of all the great gals they miss out on by being so judgmental.
2006-12-26 07:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys don't , just because a few do does not mean all guys go just for looks....what about women who say they want a nice guy then date only guys that treat them like dirt or for their looks...I know all women are not like that or I would never had a date
2006-12-26 07:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only when you/they are young do guys act like this. Things will change when you/they get older. Play the game while you can.
2006-12-26 06:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by firedncer80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cause they are 2 messed up in there lives and all they think about is good look in bed.
i bet you are a goood person and those guys are missing out on alot.
2006-12-26 07:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by thinkpinkwhenyoushop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they are more concerned with what people think about them. People like that usually miss out on a lot of good things!
2006-12-26 06:57:50 · answer #11 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋