Through discussions with a friend and researching on the internet I have determined that I am a sex addict. I have no conscience when it comes to sex. I have sex with more than one person a week and almost constantly think about sex. I do not feel comfortable being totally candid with a therapist, so I don't think going to one would even help. I DO NOT want to be put on medications either. Please only answer if you've had experience with this, and yes it is a REAL condition - and no it's not a good thing! This addiction can come and go - not an all year type of thing. it's been 4 or so years since i've been like this.
2006-12-26 06:54:23 · 20 answers · asked by ? 3 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I am 24, and been sexually active since I was 16. So no i'm not new to the whole sexual experience. And most of the time I am getting satisfied.
2006-12-26 07:19:30 · update #1
I understand where you're coming from on this. I believe that I am the same way. A harder thing for women to deal with, I think. It might sound crazy, but watch this movie "I am a sex addict". It is a documentary film (though funny and cheaply made) about a man who is, and by the end of the film, you will feel very differently. I think their is some important insight in that film. It is more sad than wonderful. I think the only way to not be addicted to sex anymore is to stop obsessing about it. It comes down to self control. try not to think about it, focus on other things. just stay out of relationships (or away from men, bars, etc) if you can't control yourself right now. the movie shows that. (I know that sounds crazy, but try it?) anyways, the best of luck to you with this. If you want someone to talk to you can email me hottydelia@yahoo.com
2006-12-26 07:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Addiction of any kind is real and can destroy families, career, self esteem among others. There is someone who can help you take charge: break out of the cycle.
First, find an active Church and make friends.
Second, develop friendship with Jesus Christ. You can start this by reading the Holy Scriptue. Start with Genesis in the morning and Gospels in the evening. If you prefer use NIV. Spend 40 minutes, both morning and evening. It will be difficult at first.
Once you invite Him into your heart, He will NOT sit in a corner. He will claim your whole heart and while doing so, He will push everything else out of there that does not agree with Him.
You never have to disclose this to anyone else. Just keep it between you and your maker. Together you can do it. With Jesus you can claim your life back and have healthy sex in your life.
2006-12-26 08:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not say if you were getting sexually satisfied. Alot of women do not know what a complete orgasm is, although sex may be pleasurable it may leave you in a constant state of arousal. So, maybe that's it. Also, many physciatrist would say that you are doing it for many other reasons than sex, I E, low self-esteem, social anxiety. The fact that you have no conscience about sex is alarming, your body and your sexual intimantcy is the most valuable gift that you can give away, there is no way to give that away without giving away a piece of your heart. I.m glad your searching , good luck, Bob
2006-12-26 07:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by Bob B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is more then just the act, as you must of read it is also a physiological illness. Mental health is nothing to shake a stick at.
Self diagnoses?? Go to your mental health place and make a appointment.
Being in constant pain most people know that sex is a natural high, it is better then any pain killers on the market, or not on the market today. It is a drug of choice to some, sounds like you agree.
Have you herd of hypochondriacs? Look this up too. With all the information on the internet being one for some is very easy to do.
Go get help...if one thinks of this as a real illness then one needs to go get a real diognosis....
2006-12-26 07:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek treatment no matter how uncomfortable you are with talking about it. The condition can lead to many problems including STD, pregnancy among others.
A Sex Addiction is just as bad a drugs or alcohol or any other addiction. The condition is real and there is help out there...seek it.
You truly need to be diagnosed if you are truly an addict...or there could be some other cause for your behavior.
Good luck!
2006-12-26 06:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by ~Just A Girl~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever been in counseling for anything? If you have, you would not be afraid to go talk to a stranger. They've heard it all. You will not shock them. You will feel a huge relief talking about it with someone who can respond professionally. You are not alone. Counseling is your key. Trust that and not a bunch of untrained people here on Yahoo, regardless of our sincerity. Often times, employers have free access to counseling that is private. If not, check with your insurance company about the benefits and mental health providers. You don't need to be specific to the problem until you actually call to set up an appointment. Someday you will meet someone that you care about and want to begin a long term committed relationship. Look at the "call for help" that I describe as investing in that future relationship and most of all to your own individual health, both mental and physical.
2006-12-26 07:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep on diagnosing you wont go blind or get hairy palms. seriously ,exploring your sexuality is OK to a point but if it gets to the point where it consumes most of your time and energy seek help . i wouldn't care about comfort or candid seek help before you hurt someone or yourself or get thrown in prison. there are help programs out there you might find 1 that works for you. my friend says there is an s. a. like a.a. but for sex addictions instead of alcohol sounds like a good place to start or at least check out. remember you got to want to cure yourself, or no matter how much treatment you get will help,also theres a big differance between doing and wanting good luck
2006-12-26 07:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by mlgarl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you better stop pretending and realise the truth. There is no real cure. The best way to help yourself is to embrace the fact and accept you are a very sexual person. Being sexually high all the time is not at all dangerous as being an addict on more damaging materials.
2006-12-26 06:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by NeXuS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try Mediation and Yoga 20 to 30 min a day, the benefits are as follows:
1) Your mind will be diverted.
2) You will have more inner peace.
3) You will be more aware of your thoughts and actions.
4) You will have more self-control, and won’t act on impulses alone.
2006-12-26 07:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by orator24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a group called SA (sexoholics anonomous). They can help you out. I constantly think about sex but I am a guy. This group really works. Just check it out is the least that you could do. or start to masturbate once or twice a week instead of being with another man.
Good Luck
2006-12-26 15:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by will987456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋