Confused about this? i was wondering if anyone can help me with a prob i have... well the thing is i met this guy and now where dating for awhile but he has a brother and everytime i see me or he sees me-he makes sures im looking at him and giving him attention. Well I dont know its seems wierd too wierd for me to treat me like this, i mean everytime we go to a club or something he comes by and gives me a long hug as if he didnt want to let go--and inside im thinnking whats going on? is it me thats being silly or is he showing me some affection towards me---spending the holidays--well he makes sure hes sitting superly close to me and talks to me and makes sure im looking at him--- hmm ? wierd. And i dyed my hair and he noticed and commented me right a way. Strange... and there was gossip from my bfs friends -they said that --the brother is jealous of my bf dating me and they said he wished i was his instead of my bf--does anyone think there is something there besides NICE GUY!!????
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2006-12-26 06:51:16 · 17 answers · asked by Misia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well hes nice, he travels alot- I consider him as a friend but nothing else because it would be just very not proper. But I think that the "brother" is giving me more attention than my bf, my relationship isnt too beautiful-he makes me feel as if im not worth anything-i had a goal to go be a fashion designer-he tells me that its not me-i have looks to be a model-he tells me not to do it- and i feel un special by him-more special by the "brother"
i dont know if i wanna say this but he barely kisses me---no making out nothing!! i know its not based on this but like constanly hes sleeping or playing with the cats and no attention for me-and i just want to run away--his brother travels from one side of the world to the other-is so fun and so on and on but i just dont know what to do--im sooo sad-it doesnt matter to me any more that he likes me or he doesnt but i just WISH "BOYFRIEND" WOULD have the personality that the brother has:(
2006-12-26 07:19:56 · update #1
Oh yeah, there's something else all right. Something icky. Sometimes brothers can be competitive about everything. It's just a sibling deal. So maybe the bro is just seeing if he can take you away. If he succeeds will he dump you right away? I don't know, but he sure is displaying a disregard for his brother AND for you. He may wish you were his gf for real, but he shoud wait and see if it works out between you and his bro before he starts jumping in. Doesn't sound too nice to me.
2006-12-26 07:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Caper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to he say/she say crap. He might actually be jealous, but you need to come to that determination on your own. If he gets too close, make a conscious effort to move...even if you have to move to the lap of your boyfriend. If it seems that the brother is always trying to get your attention, then it's up to you to avert your attention elsewhere...basically, ignore him. It won't stop him from doing what he's doing, but you can get a point across.
The best way to determine if he's only acting that way because he's jealous or if he's an actual nice guy is to watch how he interacts with others. If his actions are basically the same with everyone, then just chuck it up to him being Mr. Funny Man/Nice Guy.
2006-12-26 06:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Extr3m3leySexxee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do, isn't it obvious? Are you interested in him? If you are then it is not fair to your bf and you should let your bf know the truth. If you are not interested in the bro and are perfectly happy with your bf then have a talk with the brother before anything bad happens between them or you two. Tell him that you feel like you are getting some signals that he is interested in you but he must understand that you are never planning on betraying your bf and hope that the brother feels the same way too."
2006-12-26 06:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell No. he has a girlfriend which is a big problem. he say that he is not serious with her but if he wasn'tt, he would just brake up with the female. On top of that, my advice to you would be, RUN AWAY FROM HIM, because if he's flirting with u while he has a girl, then he is going to do the same thing to you when he dumps her and get with you.the same thing happened to me before. Good Luck
2016-05-23 08:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh, this is my specialty! This guy is OBVIOUSLY into you! Or he is just being overly nice, but i doubt it. You said you were going out with his brother right? Well, you need to chose between the two of them. Either way i am guessing you will hurt someones feelings so chose carefully. Or, ask him about it. Like is he into you, and whats up with it all. Also remind him your going out with HIS BROTHER!
I wish you the best of luck!
2006-12-26 07:01:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! Guys aren't THAT nice unless they want something or feel something toward you. You're in trouble. You need to tell him to back off or your boyfriend will suspect & there's gong to be issues within the brothers & you & your man.
2006-12-26 06:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mishee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda weird....try to get away from the family so that's its just you and your boyfriend, he likes you no doubt, does he have a girl friend...... Best advise, is to keep the bubble up around him.....
(don't let him get in you space you know?)
2006-12-26 06:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, 2 things, first tell your boyfriend that it makes you unconfortable, then tell him....he may be doing because he likes you, or hes 'testing' you for his brother to see if youll go for him...is it a touchy feely kinda of family? if not, then just tell him that it makes you very uncomfortable, to please stop...but talk to your boyfriend about it first...remember, DONT make it sound like your accusing the brother of ,making a pass at you ( unless he did, like grabbed your butt or something.if he ever does thta, smack him) just tell your boyfriend that it just bothers you..if bf says your imagning it, loose the bf...
2006-12-26 06:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by s p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the brother needs a girl of his OWN. try to set up a double date!
2006-12-26 06:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the brother needs a girlfriend...or he really likes the attention
2006-12-26 06:58:20 · answer #10 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋