Is this wrong. Okay theres this guys i kno i luv and hes knos that i luv him and he wont leave me alone about it. He finally told me that he loved me too and that he wanted to have sex with me, when he asked me this i was like NO. He told me i was f**ked up, well when he told me that i lost my mind, because he had the nerve to say i was messed up when he is the one that has a girlfriend. After i yelled at him he told me he was sorry abd he asked me again if i would have sex with him. I really love him and i want to but he has a girlfriend is it wrong to do this???
P.S. I lost my virginity at the age of 11 and now he thinks i am vunrulable(dunno if thats spelled right) and i am willing to have sex with anybody!! help
2006-12-26 06:16:28 · 11 answers · asked by Jus call me "BUBS" 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey, if he has a girlfriend, and he is asking you for sex, he only wants sex. try to move on and find someone who will give you the relationship you deserve. you don't love him, you love the 'idea' that he is. obvioulsy he doesn't treat you well if you are online trying to find answers. don't have sex with him. find someone who deserves to share your goodies!
2006-12-26 06:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Man, you need to slow it way down and take a good look at yourself and what you're doing. All this guy wants is sex, sex, sex, and not just with you but with many partners. I mean, is that's all you want.... You're so young.
You need to talk to an adult woman that you really look up to and respect. Don't you love yourself for who you are deep down inside? If not, do something about it, but sleeping around like this will only lead to severe consequences that will be very painful and perhaps ruin your young life. Please don't travel this road of self-destruction.
2006-12-26 14:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend but is asking you to have sex with him. The only answer here is NO. Find out what love truely is before you jump into this Sex Only game.
2006-12-26 14:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend? Now dude that's messed up! Don't do it. What's wrong with you loosing that at the age of 11! what are you, crazy? Did you get preganet? that guy is messed up and dont love him, he doesnt love you he wants to do it, he doesnt want you, honey i am sorry to say that and its not cuz of you i would say that to any girl with this problem. dont do it and have a good life.
2006-12-26 14:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong if he has a girlfriend. you need to have more respect for yourself before anyone else will.... If a man has a girlfriend then you need to leave it alone and find someone else... If he truely wanted to be with you he would have left his old lady before he asked you to slept with him,.......
If you jump to what he says then he is more then likely going to use you then leave you and prolly end up saying stuff about you behind your back... Leave this fool alone and find yourself someone that can love you for you and all that,,,,
2006-12-26 14:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping with him sounds like a bad idea. He is ready to cheat on his girlfriend and he will cheat on you. He does not love you, he just likes your body.
What do you see in a guy who is dishonest and was nasty to you when you said that you would not sleep with him? How can you still like him? There is nothing there to love or even care for.
Take care,
Troy
2006-12-26 14:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy say anything to get with you. You sound very young don't have sex with anyone till your sure they love and respect you!!!
2006-12-26 14:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Todd C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl- he is a straight up LOSER!! lose him....... if he has a girlfriend and wants to sleep w/ you... that means he thinks nothing of you. you dont want to catch any diseases or anything from him, do you????? i know that you love him.... but think about it. does he love you? if he does, then he would break up w/ his girlfriend and be solely w/ you- then the "sex" part/discussion can resume. but if he just wants to have sex w/ you... then hell no.... get away from him!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-26 14:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by tooxswt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend, he has no business having sex with anybody but her!
2006-12-26 14:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. he is playing with your emotions "if you really loved me youd do it" that is such BS! all guys say that to try to get into your pants, he's trying to play you let him go!
2006-12-26 14:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by ErikaCane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋