my ex g/f of 4 years broke up with me 6wks ago has been hard on me over xmas got no call so i finally called and told her how i felt she said do i want to no why so this is what she said" i did not help when her when her nan died 14 months ago and could not talk about my past and she did not like that i got sacked from my job 18 months ago for touching up the bar staff" this was what she said i did flirt with the bar staff and thinking back went a bit far why did she wait 18 months to break up with me!!!!!! I thought it would help to hear thebut it does not make sense any thoughts!!!!!!!!
2006-12-26 05:34:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because a woman holds things in till she can take it no more and just explodes. Maybe if you were paying more attention to her to see if she was acting different in any way you could have asked her what was wrong and maybe it wouldn't have taken that long.
2006-12-26 05:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 + 1 = 2
2 + 1 = 3 & so it goes on
things add up & she has been adding up all the things you didn't do for her
so then she started to wake up & do the minus sums!!
move on & when you find a new girl do things better this time & you wont get dumped if you are loving & faithful & treat her like she is the only one blah blah......
2006-12-26 09:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Manlaw states closure only exists for stores and healing wounds.
Manlaw states that you are to cease and desist all communications with your "ex" unless she is your baby momma or she stops by your house for a booty call.
Manlaw also states that to keep your idle mind busy, it is your responsibility to find a suitable replacement WITH ALL DELIBERATE SPEED.
Manlaw also states that men MOVE ON while woman "stay in the moment".
2006-12-26 05:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your choose for for closure on a relationship that replaced into no longer best for you. when you have been with him for a fe years he grew to become abusive. that's a reliable ingredient which you have been able to get out of the relationship till now the abuse have been given worse. the thoughts you have for him are time-honored considering you should be attempting to undergo in suggestions the best circumstances the two one in each of you had till now he grew to become right into a abusive boyfriend. yet i do no longer think of that turning him in could have gave you the closure you're saying you go with for. it could have been greater like revenge on the abusive boyfriend. additionally whether it is your loved ones that attends this church you may no longer get rid of your self from there. Is there besides which you will take a seat some the place interior the church have been you do no longer could be continuously reminded of him and his new relatives. attempt to stay greater concentrated on the be conscious extremely than the individuals on the church. undergo in suggestions that issues on the exterior are no longer continuously how they look under the exterior. The spouse consistent with danger going for the duration of the comparable ingredient you had to bypass by way of yet is putting on a grin for outsiders. How did you seem to outsiders while the abuse replaced into taking place to you. So do no longer think of in basic terms by using fact they seem to be happy that they are or that by using fact they have been given married so quickly interior the relationship that each thing is sweet. they may be yet do no longer think of roughly that. consistent with danger you will discover somebody on your church to be your pal and spend time with him. you would be able to in no way get the closure you're asking for yet can choose for to bypass on and forget approximately approximately him.
2016-10-19 00:16:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women want attention and want you to be considerate and her time of need you were not there. she is hurt if you love her make a gesture send a card. Tell her how you really feel. Life is to short to sit and wonder why.
2006-12-26 05:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by LeeLea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to move on dude. Stop calling her. I know its hard but you will find someone who can accept you for just being yourself.
2006-12-26 05:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by Big Mak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's just using this as an excuse. It's her out.
2006-12-26 05:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by tHEwISE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she was trying to get over her hurt and continue with you...at some point she realized she couldn't...hope you apologized at least....
2006-12-26 05:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call her again...let it go....move on....it's never going to make any sense...
2006-12-26 05:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by yankeegirl123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON AND GET OVER IT
2006-12-26 05:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by dce1dg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋