i'm 19 but they don't let me do anything. and i feel like if i don't get out of here i will never grow as a person. i'm not out doing drugs or having sex or anything like that they just like having me sheltered. i wanna move out to live with my bf or a friend or someone. so theres nothing my parents can do to stop me, right? like if they file me as missing i can just call and have myself taken off that file, right?
2006-12-26 05:33:08 · 13 answers · asked by beemariebee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, if you are 19, they can't send the police after you. You are of legal age and considered an adult. And, talk to them, tell them that you are an adult and are going to move out and would like to continue having a relationship with them as their daughter. They CANT file you as missing if you aren't! They can get in big trouble for that. You are an adult, act like an adult when it comes to moving out and being on your own. Also means talking to them like an adult.
-EA
2006-12-26 05:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Earthy Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you take any drastic measures, do yourself a huge favor and talk it over with a counselor. You will never have it as easy as when you are at home with your parents, though it may seem impossible right now. Get what you can now while you can still get it. I don't mean that in a selfish, bratty sort of way. That is part of what parents are for. Unless they are abusive. You are perfectly normal to feel the need to strike out on your own. I just believe that there are smarter ways to go about it than to just up and move out. If at all possible try to live by their rules while you build a future for yourself. You will never be able to completely count on having a boyfriend or a friend there to run to, but you will always have your parents. I know alot of what you are feeling. I lived that too. Only I made a mistake and didn't make the most of what I had. Now I am 31 and still paying for it every day. Being out on my own wasn't all it was cracked up to be. Just be smart about it and really check out your options with someone who can help you sort through them with an unbiased opinion. Good luck. I hope you do very well in life.
2006-12-26 06:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Yomi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 19 and of normal intelligence, your parents cannot legally stop you from moving out. If they file a missing persons report, the police might come looking for you, but they will not bring you back to your parents just because your parents want you home. When you turn 18, you're legally an adult and can make your own decisions.
2006-12-26 05:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Based on your age you can move out and legally live on your own. Let them know where you are going so they won't say you are missing. Talk to them and let them know why you want to leave maybe that will help them compromise a little and give you more freedom. In any event, even if after you discuss it with them you still end up moving out I don't think it is a wise idea to mive in with a friend or boyfriend because you run the risk of breaking up etc and then you would probably be forced to move back in and then you would have proved them right. You are 19 so I don;t know if you plan to go to college etc. but college would be an excellent move. My suggestion is to apply for college out of state so you could move away or get an apartment on your own. That way you will learn responsibilty and independence with out having to worry about if u will break up with ur boyfriend etc. Whatever you decide however, good luck and be careful.
2006-12-26 06:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Sandra F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your an adult, they can call the police but the police probably wont do anything but find you and when you say that you are 19 and you moved out, they cant do anything. I went and stayed with a friend for 3 days when i was 21 and my mother went to the police station to say that i was missing and they were like are you hearing yourself your 21 year old daughter is missing i told them where i was going but since i hadnt called the whole 3 days my mother got worried. Good luck
2006-12-26 06:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by aries6604 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're 19 you can do whatever you want. Make sure your parents know why you are leaving and if your parents report you missing just let the police know the story.
2006-12-26 05:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by s v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 19- you can definitely do anything because legally you're an adult now. my parents are the same way w/ me and yes sometimes i feel sooo suffocated but is it in the best interest to move in w/ your boyfriend???? can you not move in w/ relatives? or maybe close friends?
well if anything, good luck! i know how u feel.
2006-12-26 05:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by tooxswt 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you plan on not telling them where you are going? Is that what you mean by "missing"? Because that would be a very cruel thing to do to them. It's not like they abused you, they just loved and protected you a bit much. At least let them know you are o.k. if you go.
2006-12-26 05:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can move out, you are 19.
2006-12-26 05:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by D.J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 01:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋