I have an ex boyfriend who we ended it bad; but he forgets too fast and does not want me to be upset if he has been mean or cruel in my opinion.
We stayed apart months after he getting close to me to then act like nothing had ever happened and to ignore my questions of why did he do it to then back off but he ignored it for months...thenhe said I should have stopped him holding my hands but he wanted it too and of course I thought we could get back togetherr.
The point is that he talks to me like nothing; I want to talk about that but I do not dare to do it in person, I will get too emotiona and he is most of times ok, talkative; nice but then does things that are not nice for a guy who dated me and should be sensitive about my feelings; I still think i should tell him even if he is nice and talks to me like nothin but then he leaves and forgets I exist to then come again spend hours to then go again and forget me
I have not been able to stay away; I have tried hard but nothin
2006-12-26 05:20:27 · 4 answers · asked by Pandora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you let people walk all over you then do not be surprised if they do.
break your piggy bank and go to the store and get a can of self esteem.
NO ONE has to put up with being treated like a door mat.
Why are you so attatched to him, he obviously doesn't give you the respect you deserve?? so why is it so hard to stay away from him?? cus HE wants to be with you?? Not good enough doll.
Sounds like he left you to be with another woman, left the other woman and was bored and horny so he came back to you and doesn't care about answering your questions cuz he knows he does not have to.
Sounds like he probably has another woman on the side.
Dump the looser.
Don't answer his calls. Don't talk to him on the street.
There are other people in the world who would love a chance to treat you right. Go find one.
It is better to be alone than to be with someone who doesn't treat you the right way.
Young love seems very powerful, but with age and wisdom you realize that another better love is just around the corner, sometimes it is a very long block and it takes time to get to the corner, but please, don't let him mistreat you any more.
2006-12-26 05:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you like being around him but he does not care about you this happens when a boy who knows you and has dated you for a while so he knows how to annoy you and how to make feel good if possible but it is hard for a girl to do some thing because you are more sensitive you care about his feelings but he does not about yours so just avoid him get new friends or read a book do no talk to him on the pnone too much and avoid seeing him in person because the more you see him the more ice breakers he will thow at you need more advice e-mail me at khanaliimran@yahoo.com if you like
2006-12-26 13:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you want then? This is a twisted question, because if I say "leave him" or "take him as he is" or "See a shrink" you are still going to do what you do. Get your life together as best you can day by day. Then you will know what to do. But will you do "it"? It's up to you.
2006-12-26 13:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by samaustinashlee_billiewjr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is not simple, he is a self serving jerk.
U need to wake up and not let him have any of your powers.
find someone that really cares and tell this jerk that is using u to back the hell off. U deserve better....
2006-12-26 13:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋