I am 13, weigh 170 pounds, but i do not look over weight because it is not like sticking out or anything.) but i have tons of guy friends and one of them i kinda have a crush on..i have no self assteem wut so ever.. pleaseeeee help..... i am on weight watchers 2 but it is not doing anything.. i will also accept tips on aneraxia.... i dunno.. please help me... last time i had a bf was in Pre-K i am now in 8th grade!!
2006-12-26 05:19:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go date Ronald McDonald. You seem to spend a lot of time with him anyway.
2006-12-26 05:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by tombomber27 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No anorexia is not the answer, but you need to get involved in sports , academics, or clubs at your school. This will also keep your mind off guys and focus more on improving yourself as a person, cuz you obviously need that, and the guys aren't worried about you. Guys like girs that are well rounded and you really dont need to worry about them because you're in 8th grade, you need to be focused on getting to high school! Thats what I do, and I'm 18, and I never had a boyfriend. I guarantee if you start giving guys the cold shoulder and not paying them any attention, then they will come to you, but if you show that you are desperate, they will treat you accordingly.
2006-12-26 13:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by HustleGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man stop you are way to young to be worrying about this. You will have lots of crushes and I am sure you have a lot of guys crushing on you but at age 13 all guys want is to hang out. If you are so worried about your weight start working out. It is a good way to meet people and relieve stress but seriously don't stress over this you are way to young.
2006-12-26 13:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by #1techfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you expect someone to love you if you don't love yourself. Work on your self esteem and get to like yourself, if you don't,guys will hang around you for all the wrong reasons and you will have one heck of a time regaining your self respect. I know at your age physical appearance is everything, but I'm here to tell you it isn't EVERYTHING. It's OK to want to loose weight, but more important to be OK with who you are and what you look like. If some guy has a problem with how you look, there's a billion more where he came from.
2006-12-26 14:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats so sad sweetie if youre even open to accepting tips on anerixia. Im having problems to getting a guy too but you shouldnt want a boyfriend just because you feel your getting too "old" even though you are only 13 and have plenty of time to date. And you should want to lose weight because you want to be healthy and happy not to attract guys, because once you do they are only going to want one thing.
2006-12-26 13:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax. find something that your guy friends like to do like sports or games, movies, music or what ever else they like and join in, be a good sport, try to learn something new with them. when they see what fun you can be and that you are willing to try, things will start to turn around. but don't expect immediate results, just take your time, your young (i know, you hear that all the time). don't stress about your weight, keep active, that will help more in the long run.
2006-12-26 13:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by cb2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, dont worry...your still so young. And dont even think about anorexia...try swimming or running to lose weight and as for how to get a guy to like you...I would just be myself if I were you. I'm sure your a great person and thats why you have lots of guy friends....Good Luck......
2006-12-26 13:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by cereal_killer034 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what a tough time just work on the things in life that make you happy the boys will come around work on your self esteem do things that make you happy trust me it will work out just remember no eating disorders ok
2006-12-26 13:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first thing you need to do is built up your self esteem- as you said 'you have nothin stickin out' so u musnt be that fat. you have to learn to love yourself if u want other people to love you.
2006-12-26 13:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wear really short skirts and show a little cleavage.
2006-12-26 13:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋