ok, i have a boyfriend of 2 yrs! And last night I was messaging another guy, who my boyfriend is really close to and he told me he likes me! What should i do? I love my boyfriend and he knows I talk to this other guy but just as a friend, thats all i Thought we was to, but last night kinda changed my mind! I need help!
2006-12-26 05:18:02 · 11 answers · asked by *~*~*AMBER A*~*~*~*~*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it just temptation or do you really want to leave your b/f and see this guy? If your love for your b/f is that weak that one message from someone else will change your mind or actually act on this temptation then your love isn't as strong as you thought it was. You might just be in your current relationship for 2yrs settling on it instead of finding what you really want. Unless it's just temptation and you let it pass as that.
2006-12-26 05:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Big Mak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a no-brainer...
If you really love your boyfriend, like you suggest, then all you have to do is tell this other person that you are in love with your boyfriend and not interested in pursuing any other sort of relationship with this other guy, except as a friend.
If you are even considering going further with this other person, you need to have a serious talk with your boyfriend.
2006-12-26 13:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by sandilo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're confused with what you're feeling and need validation over the internet, maybe you should seek some counseling, or speak to your boyfriend. If you truly love him then it'd be a no brainer to tell his "close friend" off for being such an *** and not respecting your relationship with your boyfriend. Also, your boyfriend needs to rethink who his friends are.
2006-12-26 13:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure it is love what you feel for your boyfriend's friend, because if it is only that he atracts you phisically or that he is cooler than your boyfriend, you're bound for disaster, but if it really is love, then you know what to do. Take your time to really think about it, don't rush and risk making the mistake of your life.
God bless you in making your decision.
2006-12-26 13:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 2 year old is too young for you to be dating, but if you choose to be with him, you need to stop massaging other people.
2006-12-26 13:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first think about your feelings for both of them. then talk to your boyfriend about what happened. just go from there
2006-12-26 13:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by linkielock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that you are with your boyfriend and quit being his friend.
2006-12-26 13:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by K-E-G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You skank....some people out there cant get girlfriends. Appreciate what you got and stay with your man.
2006-12-26 13:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by tombomber27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a lil too confused.
2006-12-26 13:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it clear to yourself about who you want to be with.
2006-12-26 13:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by cb2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋