hey yall i jus got dumped last night by a guy who always said he loved me. he even bought me this huge *** teddy bear for chrismas. he was always all lovey dovey with me too. he even said he missed me alot. i really feel like a dumbass now cuz he broke up wit me an i asked him why an he said that he never N_E_V_E_R liked me from the start. damn i feel soooooooo dumb and im sooooooo heartbroken too. i really foreal thought we would hav lasted an i thought we were both happy in love, hes such a 2faced *** whole. he had the nerver to say 'so we're cool right?' like helll we are definatley not cool, wat the helll does he think? i really need to find a way to get bak at him becus he is NOT gonna get away wit it becus nobody has the right to play wit ur feelings like that.
2006-12-26 05:13:28 · 9 answers · asked by la locita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just leave it alone
2006-12-26 05:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try and get him back because he isn't worth your time. From now on, he will be lower than the mud on the sidewalk. There are all sorts of people who are two faced lying scumballs, but don't let his horrible aura prevent you from seeing the right guy for. you. What you need to do right now is just take a little time to cool off. During that cooling off time, go treat yourself like the queen that you are. Here are some suggestions.
Hang out with friends
Get your hair and nails done
Go shopping
Eat all of the sweet things you can find
Rent a man-bashing movie and watch it at home
Give yourself a bubble bath with candles and listen to some soft music
Take a boxing class or karate
Paint, sing, and dance
Do these things and you will be alright!
-Kiarra S.
2006-12-26 05:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Walking Contradiction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I have to say I can relate on some level. I stay in the position I am in at work because I am enthralled with a certain individual I work closely with. With you though you say that you know she will get someone better than you...that tells me you have some insecurities about yourself and the relationship. If you are truly resolved to think that you must part and you cannot follow your career and have her I guess you have will have to either say it or write it. Sometimes writing it will ensure that it comes out correctly because you can review it. Plus face to face leaves much room for emotional break down. I think if it were me receiving a letter I would want to hear it just like you say it here. Provide facts, especially that you do love her but feel there are potential conflicts with your future ambitions and staying together. That is really all I can suggest. It does seem a shame though seeing as you love her and all but you have to do what you have to do.
2016-05-23 08:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl Im so sorry that happened to me except one of my best friends made a lie bout how I was going to dump him which I wasn't and he believed her. If he did that 2 u then he's not the right guy 4 u I kno ur heartbroken but get bac in the game live alittle I think that he was to insecure,wasn't ready to date,needs to go bac to kindergarden.So jus talk with ur girl friends go out and My advice FORGET HIM It'll be hard but u'll find out that's jus what u need. If u need to talk message me luv ya Courtney
2006-12-26 05:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by BigBallerGurl2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry this happened. I know from experience it sucks to get dumped and it hurts so bad. But getting back at him wont solve anything. Move on start going out with your girlfriends again. Get rid of every thing you have of his don't waste your time anymore. You will find someone new eventually who will mean what they say. But for now enjoy being single go on lots of dates lots of free dinners!! Good luck and I am sorry again.
2006-12-26 05:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by #1techfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the best revenge is to hold your head high, walk proud and never give him the time of day. He is a jerk and doesn't even deserve for you to carry a thought in your head about him. move on............&#@k heads like him are not worth the energy.
There are great men out there and he is NOT one!!
2006-12-26 05:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Tina S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true i agree no one should have there feelings played with. but dont do anything to him if you believe in karma then the karmas will get him 10 times worse.
2006-12-26 05:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an idiot. forget him. Find someone else and rock their world
there are plenty of men out there, who would love your company.
2006-12-26 05:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it alone im mean no1 doesnt have the rite to say that but i wouldnt care
2006-12-26 05:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋