Here's the story:
In October my girlfriend had gone to a party and my best friend was at that party. They had gotten drunk and did some stuff together. About a week after my girlfriend told me about it and I had gotten mad for a little while, but ended up forgiving her and telling her to never let it happen again. Now most people here would tell her that she can never talk to him/ see him or anything again. In my case it was difficult, she worked with him too (my fault she needed a job and I had him get her one). Now things were getting back to normal and a couple months passed. Now on Christmas Day I had found out that they were hanging together, I got angry and started yelling, I had then found out that my best friend was in love with my girlfriend. And they are planning to get drunk together on New Years Eve!!!!
What do I do?
I have so many thoughts in my mind and I don't know what the right one is...
2006-12-26 05:10:26 · 23 answers · asked by scopetu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you should have kicked her to the curb in the first place. And given your friend the silent treatment until he apologized. But seeing that you love her, that's easier said than done. But since they're hanging out and planning to get drunk together on New Year's Eve it may be easier for you in the end to take the hard road. First talk to her and tell her that you are still hurt from the first incedent and you don't feel comfortable with her hanging out with your "best friend". If she doesn't budge, then you might want to kiss her *** good-bye.
2006-12-26 05:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by shoe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend, you already know your answer. If you respect yourself, it's time to move on. Take the high road and get out of Dodge. While you're at it, and this is the hardest part, take a hard look at yourself (self awareness and introspectiveness) and ask yourself if there was anything you did that pushed her away. If so, work on that. And if most of the fault truly lies with the BF and GF, then you are much better off w/o either in your life. Life is too short to waste on them.
2006-12-26 13:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by wayaboveme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her!She doen't deserve you!If she has "something" with your BEST FRIEND,she is a loser.You can enjoy New Years Eve with the family or going into a big place in your city were people comes at a show in the most special day of the year!
2006-12-26 13:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say your best friend and your girlfriend are hooking up. You should write them both off NOW. Hope you didn't get her anything expensive for Christmas. And on New Year's he's gonna get him some of that, and she wants it.
2006-12-26 13:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to break up with her - he loves her, she's slept with him, she hung out with him Christmas Day and she's going to go drinking with him New Years Eve (and she'll probably sleep with him again New Years Day). She apparently wants to be with him, and there's nothing you can do about it.
2006-12-26 13:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She isn't a girl worth having and he's no best friend. I would leave them to it.Their behavior is pretty cruel in my opinion!Get some self esteem and walk away from this one.
2006-12-26 13:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by New Boots. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They dont respect you..go out on New Years and have fun w/o them..someone else will come along for you..i know its easier said then done but...if you think you can do better then leave both of them alone.
2006-12-26 13:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by Bee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop the gal flat, she aint worth it.
She is using u.
There are more fish in the sea that need attending
2006-12-26 13:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend is a shark and your GF is a skank and isnt taking your relationship seriously. Drop her unless you wanna keep her around for sexual relief.... you know.
2006-12-26 13:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by tombomber27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your girlfriend and tell her how you are feeling. If you value loyalty--as it appears you do--break up with her as she cannot seem to be faithful. Explain this to her when you tell her the relationship is over.
2006-12-26 13:18:53 · answer #10 · answered by Earnesty_in_life 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋