o yea he said i love u last year and i was afraid to say it back ...HELP!!!
2006-12-26 05:10:06 · 18 answers · asked by jenelle a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you 2 truly have feeling for each other , then you two should start dating. But bewarn, if you guys eventually break up , then it's gonna be very hard to keep the friendship part.
I myself have gone through that, and in the end she just wanted to be friends again and I couldn't afterall, it's just too hard
good luck with everything
2006-12-26 05:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by tele t 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take him somewhere private. Then explain to him what happened something like this: "Last year you told me you loved me and i didnt say it back" " I really regret it cause i do love you" . If you already know that he loves you then he should just say it back. He might be kinda shocked but dont leave just stand there and wait for his response. If you leave him there you might regret it. Wait for his answer. Im sure it will all turn out great. Youll be happy you told him and it will take a load off of ya. Just remember if you already know that he loves you theres nothing to worry about.
2006-12-26 05:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by - 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, stop. This does not even count as a problem.
I'm sorry but you must live in some make-believe fantasy land if you think of this as a "problem." If you have ever had a real problem in your whole life you would not complain about this one.
Most of use go through our whole lives and are never lucky enough to find what you have found.
Tell him you like him, and then count your blessing, soon life will hit you hard with a real problem.
2006-12-26 05:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand asking this question if you dont have feelings for him or if he didnt have feelings for you, but when you both have crushes on each other you shouldnt need to ask. GO FOR IT!!! Since you guys are best friends already, you could have an excellent relationship. You should be asking yourself what you are scared of and why you are running from this.
2006-12-26 05:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, wait till you're 18 (I'd guess about 6 years). Then go out with him and see what happens.
Oh, and you might want to look into a spell checker.
2006-12-26 05:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to rush into a heavy relationship, let things happen if you want, tell him to slow down if that's what you want, tell him your scared if that's the case, simply put, talk to him.....failure to do so might end in a life of wondering what could have happened as you both drift apart on separate roads of life.
2006-12-26 05:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go step by step do not jump into some thing you are not ready for ok and be care ful think before you do any thing getready for the worse and deal with the best need help e-mail me at khanaliimran@yahoo.com
2006-12-26 05:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never tell him your "secret," nothing will ever happen. It depends on what you want to happen. About last year...I think you might have been unsure rather than afraid.
2006-12-26 05:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go somewhere quiet (walk in the park is good- if you have a dog that's a good excuse) so you can talk to him. Ask him how he feels about you, just friends or possibly something more???
I felt the same way about my husband 24 years ago!!!!
Good Luck!
2006-12-26 05:15:44 · answer #9 · answered by shambuca 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Our advice is not important, the important thing is how you feel about him. If you really have a crush on him then you have to tell him the truth
2006-12-26 05:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋