My gf knws me a naughty person and she sends me S**y msges, talks abt s** and she watching p**n and stuff..
Now whwn i try to get intimate with her she says "NO" and that she got boundries!
How can i convey to her in a decent manner tht it really is bothering me and at the same time i dont look desperate, as i truely love her so much tht i want more of her!
How to react the next time i try to - Touch her Boobs and she pulls my hands and says the same thing NO & she has boundries thing!
I simply cant stand it.... as she even refuses touching and she consider herself very open minded.
It's really affecting the relationship frm my side.
I have told her many times i wana be interested sexually with her(only touchings) but she dont react much and she just says - "Shut up" everytime.
2006-12-26 04:55:01 · 11 answers · asked by Romps 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she's a virgin and just being a tease (or) she's been around the block before and doesn't want to get burned again. Either way she's practically dangling it in front of you. Tell her look either stop teasing me, and be honest about what you want or let's break this off. Don't pressure her into doing what she isn't ready to do, or you can be held accountable for sexual assault. If she's teasing you like that you need to call her on it and bring it to an end quick.
2006-12-26 05:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing is to just tell her that while you like hearing stuff like that you're getting mixed messages from her and it's frustrating to you because you want to know how she feels about it. And that you will respect whatever she has to say but she has to be respectful of you as well. It's all about expectations, if there aren't any expectations set then it's chaos, which is what you have. Good luck!
2006-12-26 05:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend, she is a tease. Remember No means No, and people like this are just into control.
A prime example of this in cinema is the girl from American Beauty.
2006-12-26 04:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by cleanguy4cleanfun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a c--ktease. If you need to get intimate with a girl and your girlfriend has a "hands-off" approach, common sense dictates that you find a girl that can meet your needs (after you break off your current relationship, of course).
2006-12-26 04:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by bullet_to_the_brain 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Already answered this.
She probably feels like you don't respect her. If you can't respect her boundaries (as she's asking you to) then obviously it's true.
Either respect them or dump her & date someone else who will put out.
2006-12-26 04:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by Miz D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more you push , the more distant she gonna get. And if you keep this up, she would dump your *** faster than you can say "i will pull it out, i promise"
2006-12-26 04:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by SIVA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should really be honest and open about the situiation let her know how you feel and ask her how long is it going to take for her to let down the quard a little
2006-12-26 05:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to let her know that she is giving you mixed signals. she can't just send you all those nasty messages and expect you to not want to act on them. its not fair. she needs to pick a side and stick with it.
2006-12-26 05:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by Btieti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just pull it out and put her hand on it. If she still pulls away, find someone else.
2006-12-26 04:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by DJ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she isprobably trying to impress you
2006-12-26 05:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by One_angel 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋