How can I find a girlfriend?

Question

I am already 36 years old and I do not have a girlfriend. I notice that girls don't look at me. I am not rich and good looking. I am thinking that girls can see this because girls want boyfriends who are rich. How can I find a girl that likes me?

Answer 1

You will meet someone when you least expect it. Get out there and meet people wherever you can. Go places. Don't be one of those people that sit at home doing nothing yet wonder why they are alone. Get out there and have fun! you may not think your good lucking but you may be Prince Charming to thousand's of girls out there. Good Luck! '-)

Answer 2

What type of women are you attracted too? And if the ones you're attracted to are the ones giving you the brush off, maybe you should try another nationality. Asian, Hispanic, Italian etc. I know that everyone is set on what type, color, tall, short, blonde, brunette, red. Decisions, decisions. But you'd be surprise sometimes by unwrapping a different package. Hell you might even find that you like that package better then the one you thought was all that! I don't know what else to write to you. I mean me personally, I'm a gorgeous black woman that have dated almost every nationality. And just like men, all women have the same parts, they're just a different color. So I'll leave with that and hope that you get what you want.

Answer 3

Your making girls sound really shallow w/ the comment about girls wanting rich guys. You shouldnt want a girl that would only be interested in that, you should want one that falls for you. Your good and bad habits, everything. Not material things. Your time will come when you least expect it. Maybe you are trying to hard. Stop searching and just love find you.

Answer 4

Not all girls want guys for the money. Money doesn't buy happiness. You need a girl who will like you for you. Maybe you could join a singles group, if your not comfortable going alone have one of you buddies go with you. Just remember to be out going but don't do something that is not you just to get the girl.

Answer 5

Be yourself and maybe get a makeover. Maybe be more mature. Find things that you don't like about yourself and things you do. Try different things and start believing in yourself. Tell yourself you are good looking, you can find a girlfriend, no matter what. You can't just "find" a girl that likes you, you have to make them like you. Talk to some girls and get to know them. And don't seem to desperate! =) Good luck!

Answer 6

Well, get out there in the world, most single girls work at local markets, restaurants, malls,
When u find the right gal, guess u will know it from eye contact.
Dont give up cause statistics ..there are 10 women for every man.

Answer 7

not all girls want a guy that is rich. have u ever met someone that u like? do u have any girls that are your friends? the fist thing u really need to do is find some friends that are girls then its really easy to ask them out.

Answer 8

If you want clean living, good mannered girls, Church is always a good place.
When I lived in Japan, shopping in bookstores was a good place. Since I was obviously not a native, it was easy to start a conversation by asking about a book.

Answer 9

Its not about looks all thie time, you are projected how you feel about yourself and it shows on the outside.Use should learn how to build your confidence up and your self esteem, maybe you are looking at the wrong type of women.I'am a witness to this i have been told i was pretty and beautiful but soon as my confidence the compliments stopped and guys stopped asking me out. It is all about attitude and how you carry yourself.

Answer 10

Well,it dosent matter if your ot good looking,your not rich etc.it matters WHO YOU ARE.Go to like a movie theater,compliment a girl you like,then walk away she will come back to you.All you got to do is get to know a girl eventually you will be a happy couple :)