I like then both very much but I get the feeling it's not mutual.
Maybe I am paranoid please help. How can I make it better so
that my sons will be happy with all of us. Thanks
2006-12-26 04:44:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Starsigns have no bearing on your relationships with your daughters-in-law. Rather than worrying about how they feel about you why not concentrate on being the best Mother-in-law you can? I would imagine the ideal to be: warm, friendly, not interfering, not offering unsolicited advice or opinions, supportive and interested. You could always talk to your sons explaining that you want to improve your relationships with your daughters-in-law and ask their advice. Good Luck.
2006-12-26 04:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget the obsession with Leo, Libra and Virgo things. Can't you see that there are millions of people who do not have a clue about Libra or Virgo but have excellent relationship with each other?Just each one try your best to be considerate to each other. Also, remember it is natural to get angry. The problem is with action or reaction in anger. Slow down, go back in time and put yourself in their shoes and reverse the role and see how would you have reacted when treated the way you want to treat them when angry. Also, remember that it is not too difficult to make up after showing your anger. However, like a broken glass cannot be repaired perfectly, show of hatred toward another person hurts very deeply and is difficult to reverse the hurt feeling totally. You are the elder in this case and have some right to show disapproval when you know something is not right and mention it gently even if it include a milder anger but never show expression of hatred or words to that effect. This way you will keep your family together as well as not cause problems between your son and daughter-in-law. I know it has some emotional cost but nothing comes free. Best wishes to you and your family.
2006-12-26 05:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ottawan-Canada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Libra girl and as far as I know, Leo's like to be the center of attention and are pretty flashy, not knowingly of course lol. Libra's like to be the center of attention but don't demand it, so I say make an effort to talk to her, offer to go shopping with her we love to shop, if you're having a conversation with her and have a strong opinion on the subject don't be to aggressive about it, Libra's see things from both points of view. So ask her opinion on something oh and again shopping. Hope it helps, people of signs aren't all the same but if she acts alittle like a libra that should help. Sorry don't know that much about virgos.
2006-12-26 04:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by tinkchick87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my Zodiac sign is Leo, and i have sisters, one is a virgo and one is a libra and we get along wonderfully, so i dont think thats the problem! From what i know of your question, you all are seeming to get off at a good start, maybe your only feeling mutual becuase yall just met, or yall not that close. Trust Me, if you get to know them, Everything will be fine!
2006-12-26 04:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by tryisha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zodiac signs don't have anything with you getting along or not getting along with a person, but astrology is helpful . You just need to find out her about the things she likes and dislikes and hopefully u might like some of them same things, but she has to be willing to try to make this work to. I think a survey of questions like: What's ur favorite color?; Your favorite food? Favorite holiday?; favorite place to visit?;etc would be good for the two of you, and maybe schedule yourself and your daughter in law to a SPA and get the works.. it would be relaxing and good for the both of you at the same time! Hope things work out!
2006-12-26 05:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mrz`J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your astrological signs have anything to do with this. Everything is all based on personalities and their potential for conflicts. Maybe you don't project yourself in a manner that shows how much you care for them and they take things differently than you mean them. Perhaps you need to ask your sons what it is that makes them seem standoff-ish...
I think that inlaw relationships tend to be very tricky anyway because there is always that potential of a power struggle between the new wife and the doting mother.
Good luck!
2006-12-26 05:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try reading 'Sun Signs' by Linda Goodman. It's very good, and could possibly help. But remember that sometimes people just don't get along for no real reason. Good luck!
2006-12-26 04:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by alimagmel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the horoscope names, they will only impair you in your relationships. You were not made in a mold that will onli fit "certain" personalities. Life is what you make out of it, not what some "stars" are predoing for you. How do you use your free will? Enjoy them both, be a good listener and adviser, be you and relax. Life is too precious as to try to put it in a dozen boxes... Think outside the box. be spontaneous not trying to match the "libra, leo, virgo, etc. things."
God Bless you.
2006-12-26 04:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you kneed to get over what signs you are, because that has nothing to do with it... don't let their signs inter-fear, get to know them for who they are and not for what you read up on their sign clashing with yours!!!!
2006-12-26 04:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by Pilsner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give them some time don't try to hard just be your self
2006-12-26 05:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋