I am messing wit a guy who is a Marine and i intend on going the Marines myself but us 2 having a relationship is considered fratnerization. Now we can always continue to have our thing on the low but it causes conflicts because i want to be with him and i cant because we are always hiding. Even if we wait until after i return from basic training which happens to be 3 months i wont b near him for long. I wonder if i should just stop things now because my feelings for him are great n if i continue to b with him they are only goin to get stronger and make things harder on the both of us. We have talked about ending the relationship we have and just remaining friends but that never seems to work out. We have also tried goin days w/o seeing each other and it only makes us want to b together, now i dont love him, but i think i am just caught up in this relationship because i havent felt like this in a while. Dont get me wrong i care about him, but i dont want to end up hurt!
2006-12-26 04:31:53 · 8 answers · asked by Secretlyfe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like u don't want him hurt either. Give it time and relax hun cuz well honestly even if you deny it you do really love him and he loves u as well. Rules are rules so don't break them. Know what you want in your heart and go get it regardless. But know what you're getting yourself into also. Military relationships can be a challenge but are so rewarding if they work out. I wish the both of u great luck on this one.
2006-12-26 04:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. But if you both already tried ending it and it doesn't work out, dont' you think there is something there? You say you don't love him then why are you with him? If you both really want to work this out then it will. You say you don't want to hurt him, if you don't, stop right now before it's too late. Don't play with his heart...remember what goes around comes around. Someone will hurt you too. If it's best for both of you to part ways then go for it girl. Both of you deserve to be happy. GOOD luck!
2006-12-26 04:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by Morena461 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
notice my Icon. If you are getting ready to go to bootcamp. do your thing like normal, then when you go to bootcamp and can't see him for 3 months you will be able to decide what is right for you. If you decide to stay together then you will have to figure out what to do. Chances are you will be stationed in one part of the worls and he will be in another. and Uncle Sam will take care of the problem for you. Semper Fi.
2006-12-26 04:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by gunsmoke_70 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how you can work around this 'military problem' you have, but it sure sounds like you two should be together. I think you love him more than you know.
2006-12-26 04:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how do you think all of the military people meet their spouses while they are in the service? The fraternize and get married!
2006-12-26 04:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Donnalah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u shouldn't hide it at all and just come out with it!
2006-12-26 04:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are women so messed up with situations like this? Get over yourself! I promise you he will.
2006-12-26 04:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Go to hell
2006-12-26 04:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by sajid a 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋