i got my first boyfriend on 9 - 21 - 06. we havnet kissed or hugged yet. what do i do? i need sum1's advice.
2006-12-26 04:29:38 · 15 answers · asked by im_tinkerbell_lol 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well congrats, I've only had 1 boyfriend too, but we never kissed either. Btw if u kiss him and he turns out to be a jerk - not at kissing- then dump him or else he will spread rumors about u and how ure whorish. But on ure first bf- dont try new stuff. if u get wat i mean
2006-12-26 04:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by Hershey's Kiss 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dont plan anything. Dont plan the hug, the kiss nothing. Gradually let things come. First he'll flirt, hold your hand, hug you, kiss you on the cheek, then kiss you on the lips. Not all in one day but thats the order its gonna play out. Dont pretend to be something your not or change yourself into what you think he may like more. He likes you the way you are now thats why you are are together. Hold off on SEX. SEX will not make a man love you more, SEX will not make a relationship better. Dont have SEX out of curiosity. Take your time have fun enjoy your first relationship. I know you might think im crazy but trust me. Dont be afraid to go to your mom and dad for advice and answers to questions. Your dad is gonna be honest from a horn dogs perspective and your mom has probably been in relationships and gotten hurt so shell know how to help you cope and deal with things. TAKE MY ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-12-26 12:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by meka g 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just take it easy and don't rush anything. If you feel comforable then give him a kiss even a kiss on the cheek. When you and him go out hold his hand and smile. I remeber when I got my first boyfriend I was nervous I didn't know how to handle it but it'll work it's self out just don't be in a rush and if you feel comforable enough to kiss him then go ahead or if you don't then that will come in time. Just don't rush things and you'll do just fine.
2006-12-26 12:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the two of you are together, reach for his hand to hold. If you're sitting next to each other on a couch, put your head on his shoulder. When you say goodbye, give him a gentle quick hug. He should get the message! Depending on your age, 'tho, don't get intimate too soon. And if you're a young teenager, don't do it at all! It complicates life.
2006-12-26 12:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you first? It's useless for us to give advice if you can only eat out at Chucky Cheese or Chik-fil-a. I'm assuming you're pretty young and the advice I have for you is...
don't rush anything, enjoy eachothers company, and don't forget your friends. Keep them close. Alot of times young people tend to forget about their friends when they get a bf/gf. Try staying out in big groups...those are pretty safe. Good luck!
2006-12-26 12:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No-matter what your age is..since I don't know...Just because he's your boyfriend now..doesn't mean you have to think about the kissing and huggin yet..use the beginning time to learn about one another. The feelings will tell you when everything else should happen. Good luck girl!
2006-12-26 12:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it, next time you see him, run up to him, jump in his arms and hug him, make it romantic and say something like 'Hey Babe I missed you' and then give him a kiss on the cheek. Or just leave the kiss out, and wait for it to come sometime special. Make the kiss special and memorable. =]
2006-12-26 12:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sally 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first thing is that you should know is that you SHOULD NOT date anyone who does not respect you, or who takes advantage of you. Second is that you should just be yourself and don't feel stupid if you embarress yourself doing something idiotic.
just relax
don't act all stressed, guys hate it when girls are stressed out
just let nature take it's course
just make it a little obvious that you like him back
nothin slutty just kinda, well i don't know how to explain it, but you'll know when it happens
2006-12-26 12:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by `✪~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on your age and what you feel comfortable with. If you want to hug or kiss him, go ahead and do so; if you feel uncomfortable about it, then don't. Don't let anyone pressure you to do or not do anything you don't want to.
2006-12-26 12:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. Try to get warmer to him. But dont do something romantic suddenly because he could get uncomfortable and quit on you. Start to flirt if you'd like.
2006-12-26 12:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋