I dont understand why yahoo remove my question...I was getting really good answer from everyone...anyway...I just dont know what to do..like i said I think that he has been using me to..but in way that is not noticeable..he acts as though he wants to be with me and he misses me but i thin that it was all an act t keep there and have me trea him like a king..he just feeds me words and i see no action from him..i love him i do..but i am feed up of him not meeting me half way...I will do any thing and have being doing everything for him..what about me who is going to take care of me..I spent over one hundred dollars on his nephew..because i figure his sister is only 17 with no job and she is not in school and the baby need clothes..did I get a thank you no..i did not..for all I know he probably erased my name on the christmas present box and left his name.I just feel like he does not put me first..I come last in his book..if you are with someone.why do you have to think about when to call
2006-12-26 04:28:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your needs are not being met in the relationship, you have communicated this and he had not responded to try to fix what is wrong, then he is just not that into you and you did the right thing breaking up with him.
However, the spending $100 on his nephew is a separate issue; did you do it without him asking you to? If so, he may have felt that was your decison and as he was not a party to it, he is under no obligation to thank you, and may even resent you for it. As for the 17 year old sister, yes, she should have thanked you, but she is only 17 and has a baby so she has already shown that she has poor judgment and doesn't know any better. If you bought better present(s) then the rest of her family, she may even resent you for doing so as it just shows how you value her more than her own family does.
If you think he might have erased your name, there is even a bigger clue of trust issues and again, good thing you have ended it.
2006-12-27 03:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you still with this guy?? you KNOW he treats you like sh1t. i know, you know. you just said it. so if you KNOW he treats you like sh1t and you KNOW you can do better, whats stopping you?
i know its easier said than done, ive been there believe me. but youll feel so much better once your gone, like a weights been lifted. and i bet the next guy is gonna treat you how you deserve to be treated
2006-12-26 12:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by theburlaces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All give and no get does not make a healthy relationship. Get out!
2006-12-26 12:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya have to think really closly does he loves u or what is happening? really u should think about this andthen tell him how U feel./\
2006-12-26 12:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by asianfaith97 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋