Why is it, that when you aren't really into someone.... They always seem to fall in love with you.
And when you're really into them, when you feel like you could fall in love with them.... they treat you like you're invisible?
Am I the only one?
2006-12-26 04:25:56 · 12 answers · asked by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah I call it the Diamond theory. people want what is rare so if you are not into someone and show no sign of interest then you seem more rare cause you aren't as easy as most people. But when you find someone you want the and u start to act kinda needy or just like that person is more valuable then another it starts to work into the same effect. I usually act the same towards women I really want and play the same game no matter what. If you act like that person is a diamond then it will be a diamond. Hard to get really expensive shinny jewelery. Good luck
2006-12-26 04:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh trust me, you aren't the first! I have the same problem, I really liked this kid and I thought I was in love with him. He never seemed to want me or even pay attention to what might be there, until I stopped liking him and got a boyfriend. That's when it really hit him I think, that I wouldn't wait forever. He started liking me at the wrong time and everything was just out of timing. I understand that you either want them or there is nothing there, well maybe you should just move on. I know it's hard, but maybe moving on with make the other one realize what they are missing and run into your arms, or maybe they will think that it's just not meant to be. I hope you realize that it's not your fault or the other person's, you guys just have to be insync to be together. I don't think you are though.
Good Luck, and I hope you find what you are looking for! =)
*~*PrInCeSs LeAh*~*
2006-12-26 12:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you act differently in both situations. When you aren't into someone, you just act naturally and relaxed with that person, and THAT is attractive. But as soon as you start to get "those feelings" for someone, your defensive mechanisms either go up or shut down completely. Either way, you are so busy trying to "act right" that it's forced and the relationship fails.
2006-12-26 12:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope you're not alone, just the nature of the game of life.
2006-12-26 12:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by Quix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate stuff like that.if you love or want to be with someone then why not just make it happen..why all the games
2006-12-26 12:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is what you call life unpredictable you never know what is coming towards you just be ready for the worse and enjoy the best of it
2006-12-26 12:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your not the only one with this problem. It's just when you can't have something you want it more.
2006-12-26 14:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by Questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats human nature buddy
2006-12-26 13:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by lakecountry40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not the only one!Well maybe they are just trying to get your attention right now!!!
2006-12-26 12:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by Claire M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same here
2006-12-26 12:52:44 · answer #10 · answered by Breakdancer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋