don'tyou just hate it when ur ex's new gf is so nice to you?
i mean youstill are in love with ur ex.and in a way you hate the fact that they're going out but you want them to go out because you want your ex to be happy. but you hate the gf..and well she's all nice toyou and is NEVER mean. and it makes you feelso friggin guilty...
that ur here hatin on her for no reason ....
it be a lot easier if she hated me and left me alone...
ya know?i find it rather uncomfortable....
2006-12-26 04:24:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pfsh i've been jealous and she knows it. and he knows it and she;s nice to be when he;s not around at all..
2006-12-26 04:31:00 · update #1
i mean... i encouraged him to ask her out. because well. he liked her and she liked him lotsand yes i brung this among myself but ya know the whole happiness thing..... and it hurts. but then again...theres that jealous raged you wanan shoot her with a bebe gun but ya cant cuz she just made you a damn cookie!
2006-12-26 04:36:41 · update #2
LOL!
2006-12-26 04:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by Garret Tripp 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand. My ex's new girlfriend used to come to where I work. And tell me about their problems and wanted to know if him and I used to argue about the same things! It was so weird! When they broke up she called ME crying asking me if I thought they would get back together. This is not some little girl either, I am 21 and she is like 22 or 23! SO TALK ABOUT WEIRD!
2006-12-26 12:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by TNL 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey ,I had the same problem...I had hated my husband's ex-girl till my blood were boiling in my veins...Well I realized it is not too healthy for me to. Why I would focus on "past" ...and make my present time such a hard time. To help my self I start praying to Jesus to fill my heart with love toward his ex girlfriend...my prayers was answers.
2006-12-26 12:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by kinga310 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never had that experience but it would stink if my ex's girlfriend was nice to me. I wonder if it's a put on to not make a scene because maybe deep down inside she hates you for being his ex but she doesn't want to show it because of your ex and she wants you to think that she likes you but she really doesn't. That's good that you want him to be happy even if your still in love with him. You shouldn't hate her but it's ok to not be happy to see them together. Why don't you go places that you won't see them? That's all I can say.
2006-12-26 12:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are jealous that is why you hate her so much. You should learn to love your enemy. If there is no reason to hating her, you must not like her because she is with the one you still love and have feelings for.
2006-12-26 12:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know in the movie "The Godfather" there was a lot of wisdom and one of my favorite lines is "....keep your friends close and your enemies closer." I think you should take advantage of this girl's kindness, get to know her and then sabotage their relationship. If you don't have what it takes for that, just forget them and move on.
2006-12-26 12:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't associatte with her anymore than. It's not your responsibility to like every person. It's okay to not want to see your ex with someone else, as long as your not malicious I think it's perfectly fine.
2006-12-26 12:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i have had the same thing with my ex's new girlfriend but then i gave her a chance and we r now best friends and we all get on great 2gether
2006-12-26 12:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by mandy_dunn8 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She doesn't want to seem like a jealous b*tch and piss him off.
She's just putting on an act. So you don't have to feel guilty for hating her.
2006-12-26 12:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOU shouldn't be dealing with either of them in the first place.
2006-12-26 12:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well you act like you are a angel then when you and her are alone and room tell her ow you fell about her. and be mean .
have fun
2006-12-26 12:30:31 · answer #11 · answered by sexy red 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋