I am falling in love with him and he says he is not ready yet. we get along beautifully and we have alot of things we want to do together. my past has not been nice. i will often go to pieces when talking with him on the phone and he says it's because it's the first time i have been in a loving relationship. i also know his mother. i met this man through his mother. i am in a wonderful church at this time, too. i have recently joined the church. this was a decision i made on my own. I also joined the choir and other things to do in the church, again without the aid of my friend. feedback anyone?
2006-12-26 04:18:43 · 11 answers · asked by rubyred 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds great. I would love to meet a Christian man as well that I can get along with.
Maybe because of your past relationships or whatever you may be going faster than he is. I don't think it is a good idea. You may come off as too clingy or needy.
I wish there was a magical formula for relationships but I guess the closest thing is trial and error.
Pray that God reveals if this is the relationship He planned for you and him.
2006-12-26 04:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by P&B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The key thing you need to focus on is that he said he is not ready for a relationship.
He may be slightly interested and wants to get to know you better or he may not be interested it all.
Pushing someone into a relationship, no matter how right it feels to you, is never a good thing.
Give him time and space, let him make the phone calls, and start looking elsewhere to keep your options open.
Good luck!
2006-12-26 12:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kaitelia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you are not sure of yourself or of what you want in life.
Do spend more time and focus on your life as a single, maybe on church and on God himself.
because you don't want to fall apart if the relatinoship with the man doesn't work out the way you want.
Don't depend on him to give you happiness and love. Only God can do that completely and it's not fair to him to have someone depend on him for their existence
2006-12-26 12:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by rise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time with this you don;t need to rush him and if this is your first time being in love don;t do any thing stupid like get married the first year.Wait 5years then you can see if you really love one another and remember it is different living with some one.
2006-12-26 12:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by bonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u r sure that he feels something for u, u should give him some times to think and to get to know u. if the relationship is meant to be, he will tell u how he feels on his own. so patient my friend and good luck.
2006-12-26 12:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont know what the question is But give him time and space. His feelings need time to grow.
2006-12-26 12:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. Talk to God a lot about this situation, and ask him to help you be able to take it slow if this is his will. Good luck.
2006-12-26 12:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! When you involve God inn a relationship everything will be wonderful! Keep it up!
-Kiarra S.
2006-12-26 12:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by Walking Contradiction 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not believe in love..... My good advice is to stay out of it,..... first its fun you dont feel like sleeping then when its becomes worse you start hating your life..
So stay from it..........
2006-12-26 12:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by sajid a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you wanting to know?
2006-12-26 12:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by seslies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋