He's called me twice in over2 months. he forgot to mention he left for NY on friday and he pays more attention to his friends than me which would be fine exept with his last girl he blew all his friends off to be with her. I see him for about 5 mins a day and i dont see him at all on weekends. the only thing good is he's not cheating on me. i think
2006-12-26 04:11:12 · 30 answers · asked by KTbaybee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's not that into you sorry but any guy who was really into you wouldn't blow you off you need to kick him to the curb and find someone who will appreiciate you
2006-12-26 04:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't give a darn about you and you should break up with him. What kind of guy leaves the state without a word to his girlfriend? I mean that's wrong. It's ok for him to hang out with his guys once in awhile but not all the time. If he's blown his ex off then it's possible he'll do the same to you and if you only see him 5 minutes a day and not on the weekends then you need to dump him because that's not a relationship it's more of a friendship. He could be cheating on you aswell but I'm not sure. Sounds like he's the type of guy who doesn't know how to commit to a relationship and your better off with someone who does.
2006-12-26 12:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get reall and look at the things you wrote in this question. 2 in 2 months is not good. How could he forget to tell you he was leaving for NY? Why would he care for his friends more than you? He shouldn't blow his friends off,but, should pay more attention to you if he really cared for you. Why would you bother with 5 min. a day. What is he doing on weekends? Get real, he is doing more than seeing his friends. Blow him Off. Drop him. Get rid of him and get some one that will care and show you respect. Doesn't sound like he is too honest. What would you want a guy like this for??????????
2006-12-26 12:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by ruth4526 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. That doesn't seem like much of a relationship if he hasn't called you. Just tell him the next time he does call that you have someone else that you are thinking of going out with and how do you know he isn't cheating? There's no way to know for sure unless you catch him red handed.
2006-12-26 12:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend you can't break up with someone that your not going with. That's not a boyfriend it's a pet...he eats..pee's and is off chasing tail. Get out of the house and start really dating someone, you got him, so you can get a newer better model. He may come back sniffing around but you don't want him. If he treats you like this now can you imagine how he would treat you later...kick this dog to the curb.
2006-12-26 12:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Dragon Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was young I had this girl I was dating but I hung out with my friends alot she argued about it all the time but I would never change at least I thougth ,then one day I can home and she wasnt there .then it got were I never hardly seen her she turned it around on me .I gave up my friends and things was back 2 normal.so turn it around on him it might work the only thing about my relationship we was around each other 2 much and the relationship ended because we started arguing 2 much lol well I tried, good things work sometimes and sometimes dont but I never stop trying ,good luck.
2006-12-26 12:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by ezmoney7172 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy with him and the time he spends with you, by all means - MOVE ON. Dating is like shopping....you try on something and it may not fit well. You don't buy it. Same here....you try him out for awhile, and if it does not work, don't buy it. Don't expect him to change completely to fit your relationship needs....just keep looking for a better match. You'll both be happier.
2006-12-26 12:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by twicewise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is not your boyfriend. Let him go and move on.
There is no point in even discussing anything with him, he is not worth the time and (honestly) doesn't seem to have any interest in pursuing a relationship with you.
Good luck to you!
2006-12-26 12:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by Kaitelia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you crazy that not a boy friend he used you as a booty call dont waste no more time move on to a real relationship good luck if you my girl friend i would want you to be with me 24 / 7 take care bb
2006-12-26 12:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that y'all are not even a couple. I'd dump him and move on if the best you can say for a guy is that he doesn't cheat on you. Dump him, and move on to someone else - you deserve someone who actually shows up for the relationship. Good luck.
2006-12-26 12:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to sound mean, but if he wanted to be with you and cared about you then he would be there with you.. unless your ok with this type of dating and you see it getting better in the future i would have to say move on..
you will date again
you will liek someone again
but you won't know until you try it
who knows maybe by telling him it's over he'll realize what he'll miss..
good luck
2006-12-26 12:16:33 · answer #11 · answered by Moto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋