He broke up with her, because she was snagging out in the back of the bus when he was at basketball practice. Him and I have basketball. I'm a girl,so when we get on the bus we sit together. But its winter so it is dark. so he asked me out before he broke up with her. Is it her fult or his? And my other friend is trying to break us up ,because he told her he would go out with her if i ever broke up with him. So I told him on the bus what she said, he apologized, but does he really mean it? And she writes to me and says if I care about him I just say IDK so she says that I should'nt be going out with him, because he really cares about me is that true.
2006-12-26 04:01:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are more fish in the sea, she is your friend, will he be a perfect mate for you? If he can be then continue to pursue him, if not let him go. Your friend is more valuable.
2006-12-26 04:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by SYLVIA S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girl who is trying to break you up is not really afriend as friends don't do that to eachother.Speak to Larissa and tell her how you fell about Tevin and ask her if it's OK with her. Otherwise there are other guys out there but if you really like hima and she doesn't want you with him,you'll need to make a choice between the two of them.
Good luck...
2006-12-26 04:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he cared about you he wouldn't be looking at other girls let alone telling them he would date them if it weren't for you. He makes you sound more like a boil than a girlfriend.
Be strong, Break up with him publicly so everyone knows who really broke up with who and if he really wants you he'll grovel for your forgiveness. If he runs to some other girl you'll know he never really cared much for you anyway.
2006-12-26 04:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player. If Larissa is really your friend you should leave him alone. You can remain friends but don't be his gf, that is asking for all kinds of problems.
2006-12-26 04:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by PRS 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Steer clear. Relationships with friends ex's is walking on thin ice. Even if she ok's it, it is not a good idea. It will still hurt her.
If you treasure what you have with your friend, stay away from him.
Also he maybe trying to get with you to upset her. That is a thought.
2006-12-26 04:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by wldctpete 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a lasting relationship happening here at all, with that in mind, if you want to persue him go for it girl, but I'm sure you could do a lot better.
2006-12-26 06:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tevin is playing games with you girls. Don't let his smooth ways get in between you and your friends.
2006-12-26 04:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, to start with he shouldn't have asked you out before he broke up with her so that would seem to be his fault.
2006-12-26 04:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow...as you get older (i have no idea how old you are, but i'm assuming it's kind of young), you will realize that friend's boyfriends should be sacared territory, both current and ex. i would have just stayed the heck away from that one!
2006-12-26 04:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not date him!! Your friends should come b4 a guy. He sounds like a SUPER player and you want to be as far away from that as you can. Look what he did to her,....he will do it to you!!!
2006-12-26 04:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by lizzy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋