when should i tell him that I really like him and what should I say?
2006-12-26 04:00:54 · 13 answers · asked by complex1simple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um well if you have already had sex then you should tell him at any time that you like him. Be honest and just say,"I really like you"
2006-12-26 04:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. That's a little fast, but that's cool.
I gather by this point, he knows you like him. Has he given you any sign he's interested in more than a one night stand? Text messages? phone calls? etc
Why don't you call him and meet up with him and tell him how you feel.
Make sure he knows that you're not 'easy', that you slept with him because you genuinely really like him and would like to start dating. Mentally prepare yourself for a rejection, as one-night stands seldom evolve into relationships because it's the no-strings-attached sex that the partners are usually after, not stimulating conversation and nights of drinking cocoa in front of the fire.
So, let him know you really like him, that you want to see him again. Keep it simple, don't get too heavy, smile sweetly and be cool.
Hopefully he's a nice guy, and is flattered and will return the interest!
If he isn't interested, then that's okay. Put it down to life experience, a crush gone too far and in the future avoid sleeping with people outside of relationships (always use a condom!).
2006-12-26 04:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think you can have a crush on someone you've already had sex with. that constitutes that it's already known that there's an interest between you. a crush is when you like someone and they don't know about it. now if the sex was just frivolous, then you might just talk to him. that's the best way.
2006-12-26 04:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm curious about what you have done. Your first mistake was having sex with him before you established a clue. Now I'm afraid that this 'thingy' will be written off as a one night stand. Wise up and get with the program toots.
2006-12-26 04:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by mumra_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably stop sleeping with him for a while, just to make sure he's there for something more than the sex. you should also take a step back and look at yourself. why did you feel it was necesary to sleep with a man because you have feelings for him? maybe you should deal with that issue and hurting before you start any kind of romantic relationship.
2006-12-26 04:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not think that if you had sex that is it relationship is more than sex so keep on talking to him start going out with him more and see his behavior and ask him different questions about his short and long term plans in life and see if they match with yours and see if he is keeping up with you like if your mood changes he should change a little bit or tell you off
2006-12-26 04:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
must be a teeny booper. lol If the guy has not said he likes you yet, then you are in a world of hurt. On the other hand, cut the sex out and then see if he likes you, before you say you like him.
2006-12-26 04:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just have more sex he will get the message.
2006-12-26 04:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already had sex with him and you want him to know that you like him? lol, you are a real piece of work!
2006-12-26 04:03:57 · answer #9 · answered by bullet_to_the_brain 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u had sex w/ a guy who you dont even kno likes u?
2006-12-26 04:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋