i need to show my boyfriend that i'm not as easy as he thinks i am, weve been going out for 3 months now and he's given me 3 insulting gifts throughout our relationship, i don't know why he treats me like this but i need to show him he can't get sex as easy anymore, the last gift was an awful color scarf set looks like a little childs. right now i want to show him that i'm a different person i told him i didn t like the gift but he didnt even care!
2006-12-26 03:49:40 · 22 answers · asked by freshcalmbreeze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him and find someone that appreciates you.
2006-12-26 03:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by Sir J 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok I have several problems with this. After three months, sex shouldn't be easy if happening at all. That alone shows your easy. Secondly why in three months should he have given you three gifts? do you require the gifts or payment? You should expect gifts anyway. and with gifts it's the thought that counts. Were they given with good meaning or are you just a materialistic person? I think maybe you have issues more so than him. Maybe both take the time to grow up.
2006-12-26 11:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by dana j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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When I read the title, I initially felt bad for you. Then I read the line "but i need to show him he can't get sex as easy anymore".
Sex isn't some act you pass in exchange for gifts! Sex is an intimate act between 2 people created either out of desire or love. If your relationship is based on sex and presents, then you're with the wrong person.
And why are you complaining about the quality of gifts!? There are people out there who have trouble finding their next sip of water or meal, let alone have the chance to contemplate the worthiness of presents!
I don't mean to be harsh, but if I was with a partner who 'expected' presents from me- let alone 'quality presents', I would think they were selfish, self-obsessed and a waste of my time.
"How can i show my boyfriend im worth more?" "I don't know why he treats me like this"
Maybe you need to be a more mature person and partner. From what you've said, you may not realise this, but you're the epitome of what women have to fight hard to stop men from thinking we are all like!
Follow your heart. Don't stay in a relationship for random sex and random presents.
2006-12-26 12:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by midsojo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Sir J, he doesn't seem to care about the real you. Certainly every gift can't be 'right on' and perfect but three in a row that are probably re-gifted and no thought put into them?
Using sex as leverage isn't the answer tho, either stand up for you and tell him and fix it or walk away
2006-12-26 11:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by spitfin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cannot be that hard up where you feel you need to date someone who treats you like a step child! You better start placing your @ss on a pedestal. I do! Get a little snooty and concede and start thinking that you're the bomb and everyone else is merely a firecracker! There is no shame in my game girlfriend and if you and I were friends I would have you switching your touche like you have never switched it before. Start thinking that it's all about you when he comes around. You need to take on a whole entire different personality sweetie. My boyfriend told me my middle name was Sybil because I had 19 different personalities. But I bet you one thing, my boyfriend won't f*ck with either one of them. Because I DON'T PLAY! AND........HE COULD EAT MY SH!T! Yes that's right......I cannot sh!t unless he is there to smell it! Straight Up!
By the way..... Ms. thing above me. I say Hats, Horn and Whistles! So she's a proud Virgin. Well I say "Tomorrow isn't promised to no one!" You better hurry up BeautyBre... H before you gey cob webs on it!
2006-12-26 11:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's 1 gift a month which is more than a lot of girls received.
Your sex muffin is not a resource to be bargained with, so don't sell your boyfriend short, give him a break.
2006-12-26 11:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by diamondbullet66 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be high maintenence. Give up looking for the perfect one, no such thing. Also, I wouldnt care either if you insulted me after giving you a gift. That was just plain being a *****.
2006-12-26 11:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So tell me how much more you think you are? From what I read you are willing to give the pleasure of sex only if he gives you expensive gifts. Right? In my town it is called prostitution.
2006-12-26 11:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a guy I would say that you need to tell him you want a break and then make him see you talking with other guys so that he does not take you for granted and realizes that you are worth more.
2006-12-26 11:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by caitycait013 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
By not talking more and not over-acting on cases. Besides if u have already offered him sex -i am afraid its over, its not every man who comes in the name of love that is in LOVE. Avoid him than getting more used...
2006-12-26 11:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by BeautyBreak H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe I would write him off and find someone who would treat me right. He seems like a real jerk and only wants you for the sex he gets from you...
2006-12-26 11:54:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋