Last year I a very nice person :D. I guess sometimes I'm mean but not to the point of laughing at someone because of their imperfections. But this year..Its like I cant control myself. I mean...I see an 'ugly' person. I immediately giggle and spread the word to my friends. There was even a freshman...I laugh at him because he has a pretty annoying face! He doesnt do anything to me..I bet he doesnt even know me...and guess what...I too dont know him!!! my friends admit its funny....Its really funny ! But one of my friends told me I changed alot. Of course my friend said at least I'm more talkative but I mean..I keep talking about people's 'unique' characteristics in them. Everyday and everywhere I keep blabbing about it. I wanna stop but how? Karma ain't sweet if its gonna get back at u.
2006-12-26 02:50:23 · 6 answers · asked by Pink 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You need to grow up. You separate people into hierarchies according to appearance and whenever people don't meet your shallow standard you mock them to make yourself seem better then you are. Realize that they are all people and beauty actually comes from within and by that standard whenever you laugh at another's appearance you are displaying the ugliness within you. Only when you accept all people as who they are will you be free from karma.
Edit: I would like to talk some more about what karma is. Each action you take causes reactions. You can't really separate things on this earth. So when something happens everything happens. Some actions can lead to disaster and others will be very rewarding. Karma was created as a word for this concept. When we think of word karma it is often because we are generating negative energies and, at least subconsciously, know we shouldn't. It does go the other way though. When the energies we generate are for good they can be very beneficial. You can also take it one step further, because if you work for the good of all, then you will find tremendous energies working with you.
Edit: Good answer Sophia Of Light
I liked yours because it gives alternatives.
2006-12-26 03:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh and karma will! I think you could be going through changes trying to figure out just really who you are. You could also be making fun of these people b/c it makes you feel superior or better then they but the truth is you are just as ugly and as equal as they are if not more ungly b/c a bad personality can really hurt a persons beauty and make them an ugly person, you put your pants the same way these other people do, and you should try to remind yourself you are not any better then the next person. If you want to continue being a snotty, ***** and make fun of people who can not help who they are and how they look then you will do just that, continue to do and say the things you do. If you want to be a nice, kind person you will do and be just that! It's all up to you and the person you want to be and the person you alredy are.
The're are other ways to make your firends laugh and to be a fun person other then making fun of people who are less fortunate then you; if you truely want to change find these other ways instead of laughing and cracking a joke at the next person you want to, say hello and smile at them and keep your mouth shut. It takes just as much energy to be nice and kind to someone as it does to be rude and disrespectful. Only you can change the things you don't like about yourself if you truely want to - look within your heart and find out really what is in there.
2006-12-26 11:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have had major changes in your moods it could be a number of things. Many times women can go through massive mood swings during their teenage years due to the change in estrogen levels due to the onset of sexual maturity.
If you truly cannot stop yourself from laughing at any cost, and are not abusing drugs or alchohol, you might want to consult a school counselor or mental health professional.
2006-12-26 11:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by cleanguy4cleanfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to your family doc first. Uncontrolled laughter is a medical condition but---you have other things going on. Your doc should do a complete physical and possibly suggest a therapist. Something has changed in you and you don't like it or you wouldn't be worried. Seek help.
2006-12-26 10:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by Emma J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your imperfection is you think you are perfect. karma does suck, and you're gonna be on the bad recieving end. i suggest addressing the issue with family. then, see if you need to seek help after that.
2006-12-26 11:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uncontrolled stress releases stress, or to makes fun of people its becuz u want people to be busy with others bad things than urs.
2006-12-26 15:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by simply_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋