ive been with my parterner for 2 years and have a home and 1 kid together and 2 from previous relationship,past 6 months my bf is moody everyday sulks and snaps ect.im sick of it but i believe we can work it out as when he not moody we get along great.yesterday(xmas day) i had all my family around and in the middle of the day he started one of his moods and showed my whole family what he is really like.he shouted at my mum and also made his mum cry.
after the day was finished i told him how out of order he was and made him ring up everyone to say sorry.job done!
but since then all im getting from my mum and sister is to leave him,kick him out on the streets ect,i no why they are saying this and i would prob feel the same if i was in there situation but they dont seem to realise that this is my boyfriend and father of my kid and i love him,i cant just kick him out even if i wanted to!!
my mum is always ringing me up moaning about my sisters boyfrined saying how much she dislikes
2006-12-26 02:45:05 · 4 answers · asked by sammydeea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
him ect and my sister dont no this but now my mum is ringing up her saying the same about my bf saying that she hates him ect and im better off with out him and my sister is saying the same to her back.im having them ring me up every 1 minutes trying to arrange outins without him ect.i feel i can no longer talk to my sister as she now goes running back to my mum with everything i say.i dont want to leave my bf as i love him ect and shouldnt just do it coz my family says so.they have liked him for everyother day for the last 2 years.i rang my sister up this morning up and told her that i told my bf to sort himself out and to be sorry ect and she had a go at me telling me i should kick him out on the streets ect! i didnt want her advice just for her to listen .then i get a call from my mum talking about the stuff ui had just told my sister IN CONFIDENCE.
2006-12-26 02:49:47 · update #1
i have told him he needs help and after much persuation he has aggreed .my family also no this but are still at me!!
2006-12-26 03:06:25 · update #2
Ask your partner to see a Dr. to get evaluated for depression. or tell him you want to get counseling together if he won't admit there might be a problem. If he refuses maybe a seperation might be the best for him to realize he needs to change.
2006-12-26 03:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by badneighborvt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your family that you are not be persuaded by them, and if you DO end up leaving your boyfriend that it is not because of anything they said.
Since your boyfriend has agreed to seek help, give him a chance to get that help and support him through it. He is finally doing what you advise and trying to work out the problems in your relationship.
2006-12-26 11:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by Earnesty_in_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and your kid,stay with him.Try to get professional help as" marriage counselling" for him or for both.Your mother and your family are right,if they do not like him.But this is your life,your partner and your kid,so,there are not their business.Do the best you can to live with him,and with your kid.Talk with him in good manners: when he is calm,ask him what is wrong with him ,ask why he is acting in that way.Get help,please.I believe you can still save your relationship.God bless you and good luck.
2006-12-26 12:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk.
Do you think your OWN FAMILY would steer you wrong?
2006-12-26 12:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋