she said no because she says she still has feelings for me and loves me . she has had one night stands and slept with guys and says that thats ok because they dont mean anything . is she on some kinda drug or is she just a cheap hoe that i should forget about .
2006-12-26 02:44:42 · 25 answers · asked by bob a builder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What does your "EX" have to do with it ?
Why would you even ask your "EX" ?
Stay away from your "EX"...
She is your "EX"...
2006-12-26 02:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
So even though she's openly told you that she's had sex with other Guys, you would still have sex with her if you could & that would be all hunky dory would it? However, because she won't have sex with you...you're ready to label her as a cheap hoe...would you have been ready to label her a cheap hoe if she'd agreed to have sex with you?
what exactly does that make you then I wonder....
Ex means....Passed.Gone.behind.No longer
It doesn't mean...present,
You've just insulted her by even thinking that you too could get a slice of the action. What she does now has nothing whatsoever to do with you. She wants you to leave her alone mate, let her get on with her life & you get on with yours. If you want a quickie, then find someone else, she's found better than you now & enjoying herself, what makes you think she want's to go back there?
2006-12-26 11:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The problem is that men go into things like this led with their d*ck where women take in emotions, to you it could be just sex but not to her.
I know what your thinking here and it's not just about the sex is it?
There are many other reasons you want to spend a night or two with her and it's about ego, confidence, power, revenge, a thousand things all in one, some are good and other not.
I've done what your looking for a few times and to be honest, it was mind blowingly fantastic, it was like a first time again but knowing what she likes, how she likes and what buttons to press.
A combination of a short and a long term relationship all at once.
The hard part is what comes the next day, it messes with your head, your feelings and generally destroys any progress you've both made it moving on.
After all this advice, would i do it again? Ha ha, of course i would!
2006-12-26 11:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't judge her based on her past actions -- we all make mistakes. Just focus on what's happening between the two of you and what's happening is she still wants to be with you -- not just have sex. By having sex, she will get attached and she will be hurt. She wants more than sex with you -- she wants a relationship. So no, she's not a ho, she just cares about you. If you care about her, let her go and allow her to move on.
2006-12-26 10:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
i have been there and done that.
having sex with an ex just get you hurt if you still have feelings.
it leads to thinking well maybe they still like me and a hope of getting back 2gether with the ex.
many a drunken text messages and other stuff like that.
its never ever a good idea.
if you want a quick shag go out and pull a drunken tart tonight.
your ex is your ex for a reason. if you still wanted to have sex with her then you should of split up.
2006-12-26 10:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, to you, she wasn't even human. She was just a body that you wanted to hump and leave.
She thought you were special. That makes her, stupid and trusting. She thought you were a man, but upon closer examination she realized you weren't.
She's looking for a man amongst a sea of boys who wish to treat her like a toy. I hope that one day she wakes up to find that sex is not love. As soon as she realizes it, some guy that is truly special will come to her and be the man of her dreams.
2006-12-26 10:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by James B 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's your "ex" right? I think that's your answer right there. Why are you going back for some free lovin'? Doesn't that make you just as cheap and easy as you might be accusing her of being? Move on and find a new squeeze.
2006-12-26 10:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by rmt0528 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you want to shop but you don't want to buy....and then you call names. I thibnk it sounds pretty even. Some people go over the deep end to forget people they care about,I never did but had friends that jumped beds after a big breakup. You left your mark- either go get her back or leave her alone. I'm sure that how she feelsa. And don't throw stones- bet your hoppin sacks too-
2006-12-26 10:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
so because she had meaningless sex you think shes a cheap hoe [but thats all you wanted] so if she said fine lets go to my place what would you have thought then.
2006-12-26 10:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by nat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was 1 of those 1 night stands and boy your ex really rocks your loss lol
2006-12-26 10:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope... if my ex asked me for sex, I also would say no, cause I'm probably not fully over him, and it would only dredge up all those old feelings, and mega mess with my head.
She has/had no emotional attachment with the other guys she's slept with.
To me, her reaction is a typically female one.
2006-12-26 10:48:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋