Hi friends
i had a break up with my bf cause he did nt deny to me that he had physical relations with his ex and now when i am trying to ignore him he calls me everyday and waits for me everyday after i leave my house
Do you think i should believe him once again?
i still loce him a a lot and can't forget him
what should i do????
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2006-12-26 02:27:30 · 17 answers · asked by shievany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
follow what your heart tells you!
2006-12-26 02:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he cheat on you, or was this before you two were dating?
You really can't fault a person for what they did in a realtionship before. He may have thought he was in love and was reacting the way he felt was appropriate at the time. Understand, he was dating his ex at the time
If he cheated, you are in the right to ignore him. If he felt so little about what you shared, you should not only ignore his calls, but block them as well (contact your phone company if you do not know how to do this). If he waits outside your house, use another exit or leave earlier. Tell him that you no longer wish to see him and he should leave. You may feel you still love him now, but will you ever be able to trust him again?
Depending on the situation, as you can see, depends on the reaction. It also matter if he told you or you had to find out. No matter what, You must really look at yourself and see if he is what you really want for yourself.
B-Cool
2006-12-26 02:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had a physical relationship before you came into his life and left his ex forever after that, you can give him a benefit of doubt that perhaps he is really heels over head for you but if it was after you two met and fall in love, forget him and move on.
2006-12-26 02:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have tested a poison and survived. Why do u want to taste it again by believing him again. When you fell in love with him you did so bc you felt he to be honest and while you continued to be honest, he played fraud on you. You may love him if you cant come over but dont be obsessed by him. All the best
2006-12-26 21:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u a student??? if so... please forget him and concentrate on your studies... b'coz this age for learning will never come back dear...
And if not a student... have trust on him, sit with him, listen to him with patience and then try to built faith... if it develops, means he is not wrong and if not, there is something wrong in this case... And don't ever loose the hope... its a power key to life...
God Bless U
2006-12-26 18:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...well sometimes people do need a 2nd chance!
I gave one to my Boyfriend..and now we are engaged for 2 years and getting married in mid june!
Its up to you to decide though!
Tc.
2006-12-26 02:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by Cute Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wht is ur age plz letme know,i think tht u shd not bother him nymore,no doubt hes been true to u regading his relation but still its nt right so its better u dnt pay ny attention to him
2006-12-26 03:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by sharadha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave hime alone a womans intuition is never wrong
he wasn't calling when he was with his ex
2006-12-26 02:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Fruitful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats done is done u cant change that but u said u love him maybe he will change he did admit to cheating , he could have lied to u .......if u love him a lot like u said just swallow ur pride and take him back ...
2006-12-26 12:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him ,he don't deserve another chance..he is cheating on u..ignore him..it will be better 4 u in future .u will get good guy 4 u..in future..good luck.
2006-12-26 06:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by jagrati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
God tell Human bing also do mistake please leave one time.
but u can tell him i am give u last chance.if u do this mistake one more time then i am not leave u.He can also just watch u love him or not via doing this.
Thanking You..
2006-12-26 03:59:01 · answer #11 · answered by PATEL'S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋