Is it wrong to feel a little jealous because my friend got married?I have been in a off and on relationship with my ex boyfriend we been together 5 years he talked about getting married but he hasn't really even got me a engagement ring.I texted him last night that i luv him he knows what i want, i gave him all of me and i have nothing else to give 2 him,and it was time for me to get what i want and say goodbye.I love him with all my heart but i don't want to waste anymore time, i feel like 5 years is long enough time to know if you want to marry someone or not.We are not together because he wants his freedom to do whatever it is he feels like he has to do but at the same time he doesn't want me out of his life.I don't know what his intentions are anymore i love him but i'm tired of waiting on him for everything.I love him but i know i have to move on if he doesn't feel the same way about me that i feel about him regardless of his feelings.
2006-12-26 02:18:20 · 8 answers · asked by imacutie2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did my text come off as a ultimatum?
2006-12-26 02:38:25 · update #1
Time to say, put up or shut up.
Five years?
2006-12-26 02:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im no expert, but in the 5 years that Ive been married Ive learned that little is more important that good communication. Our relationship is based on our friendship and trust of each other, but everything stays togetehr becuase we are able to talk about everything. Your boyfriend needs to be honest you with and you with him. Lay it all out on the table and work through the issues one at a time. There should be no secrets, no guessing and no assumptions between you. If after this you still dont feel right then perhaps it is time for change. Be sure to talk about this and not in terms of an ultimatum (If you dont marry me Ill leave). There is no need for threats and undermining one anothers affection or stability. Be fair and honest. The truth shall set you free.
2006-12-26 02:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Digging for answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years is a LONG time. maybe you two need a break from each other to see if you want to continue the relationship. Go out and have some fun! you might decide after the break that it isn't for you after all!
2006-12-26 02:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by curious! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering the current statistics on divorce, if you otherwise have a happy and fullfilling relationship, youi should be happy. Someone's respect and love is worth so much more than a stupid ring, and a legal contract (that's all marriage is anymore).
2006-12-26 02:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by Paul A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen it is very wrong what u did, u gave ur self to him,u are not a virgin .he is cheating on u teach a lesson and then leave him .marry someone else and have sex with him after marriage lead a happy life
2006-12-26 02:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he won't marry you or other girl because he loves to much liberty but if you really love talk to him and ask him what to do
2006-12-26 02:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry he does not want to be with you --- delete his contact details and move on - find someone else
2006-12-26 02:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your last sentence answers your question.
2006-12-26 02:22:56 · answer #8 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋