we have togather for 1 year and 3 months. we were studying in switzerland. Last year she went to paris to do an internship for 6 months and i was in switzerland. She was coming to see me once a month as she truely loved me and wanted to spend rest of her life with me. she showed real care and love. There was another girl who had a crush on me and badly wanted me, so one night in a party i got drunk and she took the adventage and some of my girlfriend's friends show me kissing her and told my gf. she cried a lot and eventually she got to know that i slept with her towice. I understood my mistake and cried a lot and asked for forgiveness but the other girl somehow got my gf's phone number and told her that she wanted to be with me and she was planning a lot of things. So my gf was truely hurt and wanted to know everything from i told her the truth. And she foragve me for the very last time as she truely loved me but things did not go well and she broke up with. she still loves me
2006-12-26 02:15:58 · 15 answers · asked by Mostafiyur R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her some time. Once she gets over her pain, she may come back to you. If not, you've learned a valuable lesson.
2006-12-26 02:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's because she loves you that she needs a smash - reduce her some slack, give up twisting it round to make it appear as if she would not care, it truly is basically not genuine and basically makes me imagine you try to get sympathy from human beings although you reported some issues (probable not effective issues) in a controversy that you at present say you probably did not propose! you're saying a 'small' argument about various issues - it truly is very obscure, can not help yet imagine that the argument wasn't all that small, in the different case she does not have said a smash. 3 weeks isn't that lengthy, dangle in there and respect her choose for area/time. regardless of it really is, she needs time far flung from you with the intention to work out the priority more desirable obviously. each and every man or woman says issues they don't propose interior the technique a controversy, and that i do not imagine she's judging the priority basically on what you reported once you've been mad.
2016-10-16 21:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, if you "truley" loved your girlfriend, you would not have "slept" with the other woman...
I pity your girlfriend for wasting so much time on you, because your not worth it!
You cant keep a simple thing like loving some one, and being faithful to her, when she is a girlfriend, she is better off with out you and your cheating ways, because you would do the same thing when your married...
You are the one that is the culprit in this situation, your former girlfriend was the innocent victim...
Slept with her twice, eh? And we are supposed to believe that you would still stay faithful to your "love of your life"?
She was right, to dump you...
All you can do now, is get your act together and straighten out your life, for some woman whom you can be faithful to.. (and I hope you are, because the next one, that you may marry, may have a knife ready for you! Can you say, Lorena Bobbit????)
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-12-26 02:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you blew it. Once you sleep w/ someone else you broke the unbreakable rule. She will never be able to look at you the same way and it is over. She will say she forgives you but will never forget the fact that Mr. Winky was bouncing around somebody Else's trampoline. You need to move on, the sooner the better.
2006-12-26 02:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by bkweeks2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortuately, YOU have just learned a very valuable life lesson. You cannot force anyone to love you, or get back together with you. Her issue is that she probably feels she can never trust you again, and she may be right. All you can do is tell her you are sorry, let her know that if she needs you, you are there, and just move on with your life.
2006-12-26 02:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, let me get this straight. . .
You got drunk and had sex - not once, but twice - with another girl and you are upset that she left you?
Are you for real?
I think she was right to leave you. If the best defence you can come up with is "Sorry, I was drunk" then you don't have ability to have a relationship with one person.
She may still love you, but you have absolutely NO credibility, no respect for her, or yourself.
Get on with life.
2006-12-26 02:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Manlaw states that she is your "ex" for a reason -- you don't cheat well.
You are aware that you have enough swagger to get the ladies.into bed, so it is time to keep the lesson, ditch the experience, and find a suitable replacement.
Manlaw states that it is futile to regain the affections of a woman scorned. This is known as "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!"
2006-12-26 02:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by DaMan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved her you wouldn't have gotten ur *** so drunk that you can't control yourself. If you really loved her you wouldn't have kissed and slept wit the other girl. You ****** up. Move on.
2006-12-26 02:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by Baphomet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cheated. Would you want to be with you if you were HER? Sounds like you lost a good thing...hopefully you will think twice next time.
2006-12-26 02:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by Italian_Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your a retard, you don't deserve her. so the alcohol made you sleep with her twice. go bang your head on the wall till you pass out and stop asking dumb questions. retards like you should never get a second chance.
2006-12-26 02:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by bone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋