Why is it that sometimes we are so attracted to the person who DOESNT break their neck to get with us but the one who DOES break their neck to get with us and would bend over backwards to be with us, we're not attracted to?
2006-12-26 02:05:38 · 8 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is because we all THINK we want what we can not have and once we get it it is NOT at all what we wanted. I think that we are only attracted to what we want to see, not the whole truth. Maybe you need to take a step back and look at what really matters to you and if this person has it. Remember LOOKS are not everything. It is the little things that make a person great!! Look for those little things!!
2006-12-26 02:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by lizzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is human nature to want that which is seemingly unattainable or inaccessible.
This is true because things which are seemingly scare, unattainable, or inaccessible are called LUXURIES!
On some level we are all attracted to luxuries, but we don't like luxuries that appear OBVIOUS and CHEAP!
When someone BREAKS THEIR NECK FOR YOU, they appear to be cheap and obvious and perhaps even desperate.
Note:
Women are turned off by desperate men.
Men like desperate woman because bedroom sessions are a given!
Such are the working of life.
2006-12-26 10:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hurt the person you're not attracted to; you are hurt by the person you are attracted to. What goes around, comes around.
2006-12-26 10:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for alot of people they are driven towards things they cant have such as guys girls or material things. i think its just human nature we dont like things to come to easily to us we like to be challenged. then again it comes down to what kind of people we are attracted to and the specific people involved.
2006-12-26 10:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by chrfou18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because it gives us a challenge...cause once that person get noticed of you, you also don't feel as challenged (or let's say attracted) as before when he/she didn't take noticed of you... just my opinion.
2006-12-26 10:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by CuriousWoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, all humans crave challenges. Unless there is a challenging situation, it does not interest us. It is not fair, but that is how it works.
2006-12-26 10:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by SP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some people don't have true self confidence, so they are wanting to be rejected and they don't feel valuable enough to be loved!!
2006-12-26 10:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive noticed that myself, but i believe thats human nature to want something you cant have. nethang to easy to get isnt a challenge. it sux but thats how it is
2006-12-26 10:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by cbakakale@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋