I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, overall the relationship is great however we rarely get to spend time together because he works all the time and he is a musician so when he isn't working, he is playing and doing what he has to do but we do talk a lot. I didn't see him for Thanksgiving or Christmas and I'm not going to be able to see him for New Year's either. I am so lonely but he feels like the holidays are just any other day so it's not that important to him and it's really about spending time with family. He says that he doesn't love me any less because we don't see each other. I really miss him a lot and it's really starting to get to me. We have never really sat down to talk about it but when I do say something I usually end up whining about it and I don't think he listens when I do that. Should I break up with him or try to talk to him and work it out?
2006-12-26 02:03:40 · 2 answers · asked by 3262m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get him away for a weekend and try to work it out.Good Luck.
2006-12-26 02:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him. Just express to him how his absence is making you feel (because if he's never around, you aren't really having a relationship). I've been in the same sort of situation. My ex was a musician, but when he wasn't playing music, he was always at work. I saw him once a month if I was lucky and was very lonely. I eventually broke it off with him because I was tired of having a relationship with his cell phone. It sucked major. I figured if he really cared about me and wanted to spend time with me, he would MAKE time. He certainly didn't, so I didn't want to waste my time anymore.
2006-12-26 10:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by spyhopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋