My sister-inlaw asked us to buy gold bangles for her. We did so but now she is not ready to pay for them 22,000 . How to ask from her ??? Any trick .
2006-12-26 01:48:25 · 20 answers · asked by saara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
For the time being you have to forget this amount. Wait for the opportunity to get some thing purchased from her of same or more amount then only you can settle this amount otherwise it is really difficult to get money back from close relatives without spoiling the good relations.
2006-12-26 17:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but I do not know how this woman could be attractive to you? She is one very nasty ugly witch and somebody needs to throw water on her for a complete melt down. She totally disrespected you and your wife and I would be staying the hell away from her. Honestly you do need to inform your wife about her behavior and her drinking was no excuse. All the drink did was give her the courage to act like the skank she already is and she had no right whatsoever to ask you such a personal sexual question that was none of her business. It's pretty evident that the sister in law was trying her damnedest to seduce you and screw up your family life here. You need to show your sister inlaw where her place is by telling her sister your wife and let her give her sister what she has coming to her.
2016-05-23 07:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trick is such a deceitful word. This sounds like she tricked you and you are in a family that you will all be "tricking" each other. Sounds like you are where you should be. Welcome to the family. You are in the right one! ewwww... how sad!
It's your and your husbands fault. If you have that much money to pay for bangles then you need to swallow hard and know this is what you deserve. You never said if she said she would pay you back. She just as you have stated," asked us to buy gold banlges for her." No trick. She just asked. You could have said no.
2006-12-26 02:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by amazedmaize 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to lend money, or purchase anything for relatives, because you "know" that most will be deadbeats because they think you "dont need the money" or that they can take advantage of you...
If she is not willing to pay you for them, (I assume there was some kind of agreement, but, I will "bet" that there was nothing in writing, so that you wont get the gold 'bangles' back, or the cash).
Talk to your wife and see what she says...(Sisters are usually "tight" and they will work it out faster than if you get involved).
If there is no paperwork involved, then your sis can say it was a "gift"...and brother, thats "some" special gift!!!..... And I dont believe there will be anything you can do, unless there were witnesses besides you and your wife...and family members... you need outside verification for this one.
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-12-26 01:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok here's my take......if its $22,000 or $2,200..who in their right mind would buy bracelets that expensive for a relative?! if they cost THAT must...they don't need them! that's just a want on their part. second...if you have that kind of money to just go out and buy something like that...you might as well count that money gone. Because she probably asked you only b/c she knew you were able to drop that kind of cash for them and therefore thinks of it as a gift. so unless you made some kind of agreement on re-payment, you are probly SOL...but you could try asking her...or she can make payemnts...if nothing else sue her for the money. no matter what though GET IT ALL IN WRITING!
if they are $220 or $22....move on...its not worth the fight...unless you need the money then ask her everyday until she pays.
2006-12-26 02:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you gave her address to the jeweller for the delivery and now he is threatening to press charge against her for non-payment of bill. Or you canjust ask her money on some other pretext such as illness, as loan or something and then do not pay it back.
2006-12-29 20:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW MUCH $$$$? Did you actually mean 22 THOUSAND? Or 22 hundred? or 22 dollars? For the first two, sue her as$. For the last one, bug her daily until she pays. Either way, email her and save her responses (print them) and call her and record the call. You might need evidence for court. I hope you have reciepts. Also, any emails that she sent asking for you to do this showing that she agreed to pay back should be saved. Put all that stuff into a file for court. Haven't you ever seen People's Court? Why would you agree to do this?
2006-12-26 01:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you havnt given the bangles to her then keep them for yourselfe as a good investment. however if have given them to her then remind her that she still hasnt paid for it in a very casual manner in front of other family members.
this will embaress her enough and will teach her that she canttake other ppl for granted.
but yes do talk about it with your husband before doing so.
2006-12-26 18:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricks won't do she out smarted you in the first place!!
Request her to lend them to you during some occasion to wear them for a day for change..and keep them!!
Maybe you will get lucky,,but she has decided not to pay you!
2006-12-27 04:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say if she could not pay all of them, to return some. You could sell these to recoup some of your expenses. Better something than nothing.
2006-12-26 17:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋