i've seen this guy around for some time and actually there was once when i had a bet with my older sister who's 26, i'm 18, that i'll pass him a note with my number on it..so on that day, the both of us went into the shop and browsed at the clothes and stuff,then my sis went in,got a baby clothing and went to ask him some qns,i was standing beside her and occasionally turning around to look at the guy,hopefully there was some eye-contact but there wasn't and he looked really unfriendly and aloof,i don't know but maybe he's just like that or perhaps shy? we walked in and out of the shop a couple of times, with me still trying to muster my courage to approach him,the last time we went in, he looked at us, i don't know if he was looking at me or my sis,my sis turned n check if i was making eye contact with him but i didn't because i dare not look at him and wasn't sure who he was looking at.i wanna pass him that card but afraid of his cold appearance and what if he said he's attached?
2006-12-26 01:19:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Communication is a key ingredient in any relationship. This communication can be verbal or non-verbal. Please dont date until you have matured enough to even look at a man and talk to him if you like him. Your fear of rejection is too much.
2006-12-26 01:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Rick R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is unfriendly and aloof why do you like him? It sounds like he is not giving any warm signals at all. If for some reason you really do like him, give him a Christmas card with your contact on it, such as a number or an e mail address and then let him respond. Good Luck.
2006-12-26 09:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all, could you be mistaking his professional manner for one that is cold and aloof? He's at work not a party. Secondly, what have you got to lose? if he does have a partner, he'll still feel very flattered..everyone likes to be told they're attractive. If it doesn't turn out how you hoped, all you have to do is avoid that particular store. Good luck x
2006-12-26 09:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by Velvet_Goth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so afraid! Hold your head up, walk in there with the card, tell him you've seen him in there a few times and that you would like to get to know him. Have some courage girl!
2006-12-26 09:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by †♥mslamom♥† 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know if you never try. Besides, there's no harm in trying. If he reacts negatively, then think of it as his loss and not yours. Maybe he's shy or not used to girls. If you ever get a chance to see him again, dont think twice. Just go up to him and tell him what you've been dying to ask. Like they say, it might be a start of something.
2006-12-26 09:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was shoplifting. don't give your number out to that guy. he is probably an ax murderer. o.k. maybe he is from another country that believes that direct eye contact with a woman is disrespectful. I'm trying here. hey, he is homosexual. there is a reason. single mens attenanaes goes up when ladies come in a room. heck, married mens antennaes are up.
2006-12-26 09:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by REALLY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was probably just being professional. Do the work, get the cash sort of thing. And as for the glance towards you or your sister, he was probably getting suspicious. How many times did you exit and enter the shop?
2006-12-26 09:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Mercenary Poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you brood over a guy who looks aloof and unfriendly? 1) His work attitude's horrible because as a sales person, he should be attentive and polite. 2) You shouldn't let looks sweep you off your feet.
2006-12-26 09:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by citrusy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well really it's simple your either going to do it or not. What is the worse that could happen? I mean so what if he says he is attatched or even says he is not interested. Hey atleast you tried and you should feel good that you did. So do your thing!
2006-12-26 09:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by trf_islandkandi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a lot of guys like showin the hard part of them but truthfully he really wants to know you but i'm not so sure as to whether its you or your sister...be a brave heart and say HI to him or trip beside him so he'll catch you
2006-12-26 09:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by ceaser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋