I know kind of what to look for but still I'm confused and How do I know If he's the one for me? Please Help
2006-12-26 01:15:36 · 7 answers · asked by flower 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sincerity and kindness
not a sleazy look
2006-12-26 01:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, I don't really understand what you mean by you're going to meet a guy for your marriage. You're looking for a husband??? If that's the case, then I wouldn't judge solely off of his eyes... It's a nice trait, but not the most important overall... But whatever. Maybe I'm misunderstanding you... Maybe this is an arranged marriage; if so, I'm sorry if what I just typed sounded insensitive. It wasn't meant to...
Anywhom, what I'd look for in his eyes are a certain glow. I can't really describe it any more than that. He looks at you and you can just see in his eyes that he loves you more than life itself. You can look into them and determine how he's feeling: happy, sad, worried, angry, etc. And they're so beautiful that you could stare into them forever and never be happier.
At least, that's what I've encountered with my boyfriend's eyes... Eyes are the windows to the soul. They're one of the most imporant physical trait there is (in my oh-so-humble opinion). Hopefully, though, that's not all you're judging off of.
Best of luck to ye. Hope this helps at least a bit.
2006-12-26 09:20:34 · answer #2 · answered by flu(bad)ence 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flower, it isn't for me to say this to you, but arranged marriages are a terrible thing to do to two young people. Is there any chance you can say you don't want to do this?
Other than that, if you must go along with it, then you must appear totally subservient, virginal and capable of running a house-hold.
Maybe I shouldn't be answering this. I am western. I wish you luck.
2006-12-26 09:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by lou b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way a man looks at you- or doesn't look at you- says a whole lot. I know every one want to be admired or loved but what you should really look for is respect. If he respects you, then you have half the battle won.
2006-12-26 09:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Cindarella R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for sensitivity and love and warmth and kindness, just make sure that he is a gentle man and he will treat you right. and above all make sure that you are doing this because you want to and not to please anybody else coz at the end of the day its your life not theirs.also, make sure that he respects you.
2006-12-26 09:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by LYDZII3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look in his eyes for lust. haha
Are u going for arrange marriage?
2006-12-26 09:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honesty, passion, and love for humankind. Good luck!
2006-12-26 09:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by Martin K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋