Alright I know everyone asks this lol. Anyways I am about to move out of state with my boyfriend in 3 weeks, however I just met this new guy. My boyfriend cheated on me in the past and I still don't trust him.
Yet I'd feel horrible breaking up with him right before we are about to move and leave him to move alone. Plus, I'm the only real family he has.
I really don't know what to do. The new guy is more similar to me, raised the same way, I wouldn't have trust issues with him.
I have like a week to decide...help.
2006-12-26 01:11:41 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once a cheater.........You shouldn't trust him. You shouldn't move in with him then your really stuck being his only family. You have to live your own life and find happiness while doing it. If you move away with this guy you'll always be wondering what you might have had with your new guy. Anyways he found some girl to cheat with so he can find a new girl to be his family. Don't feel sorry for him you'll end up feeling sorry for yourself.
2006-12-26 01:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move, because you don't trust him now so when you move into another state together you need trust in order to to make it together.Don't lie to yourself and to him anymore if you like this other guy.Men when they cheat they want us women to forgive,forget,and move on not knowing that there is still some damage left after the cheating.Do what makes you happy no one can live your life but you.Maybe this other guy came across for a reason : ).Good luck
2006-12-26 09:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by imacutie2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he cheated on you once he more then likely will cheat on you again, and if there is no trust there is no relationship........It is better to say goodbye now then to move and leave him later.......Don't leave him just because you met someone else leave him because you want to because you know that the trust is gone and the relationship is over.....
2006-12-26 09:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by shortieperez1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you are right, everyone asks this. If you dont trust the guy you are with, leave him. It is that simple. Your relationship will never grow unless you trust him. Dont worry about how he will feel. Dont put his needs above your own. Move on.
2006-12-26 09:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Rick R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He broke your trust when he cheated on you, and if you have a chance at a new life with someone that's more trustworthy, screw how he feels.
He'll be out of state, anyway.
2006-12-26 09:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have only just met someone, i only just met someone a few weeks back and he turned out to be a horribel person.
2006-12-26 09:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by denise g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart...just remember...you don't know this new guy yet...there could be all kinds of issues going forward....good luck
2006-12-26 09:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋