i have 2 children and have not lived where i am for long have no family or freinds been on my own now for about a yr and thats the way i liked it but lately i would like to find mr right but i dont trust men do you think i should stay on my own or find someone and where do i start im not ugly or anythink just very set in my ways im getting on now 33 yrs old lol
2006-12-26 01:02:26 · 9 answers · asked by SANDRA S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is a graffiti saying on the breakwall at Port Macquarie --- learn to love like you have never been hurt --- i think that it is a most excellent quote and maybe one you could live by???
2006-12-26 01:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Right is purely a figment of the imagination. 'Right' is relative, and with the sensitive topic of relationships is even less common. Do yourself a favour and make decisions only for you and your children. They are your first concern. Let a man in your life and you will be forever compensating for his inadequacies, but that is just in my humble opinion. That way you can have as many friends of either gender as you want to. You will then be totally responsible only for your immediate family, which is the way it should be. If you have found that this feeling has come upon you recently then bear with it... it will pass!
2006-12-26 09:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by breezinabout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let go the past and move on, alone is good for a while, but not forever, the loneliness with depress you. Remember that not all men are the same..You just need to pick and choose wisely and not rush anything
2006-12-26 09:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by P_a94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definitely need to get out and about but don't put the relationship thing on the top of your agenda. i'm a 32, single bloke too and tried the match.com thing but there's loads of people on there that haven't signed up and can't get in touch. a local dating agency could be a much better option for you.
besides, if you're cute get a picture on here, you'll never know what happens!
2006-12-26 15:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay on your own for awhile--when you start to search--you can find the "wrong" one out of so called "desperation". It isn't easy in a new place-shopping in a grocery store and etc can help--you're not that old and it will happen for you--just be patient.
2006-12-26 09:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just take your time no need to rush let it come to you. just keep a open mind to new things. if someone greets just smile be friendly you never know who might just ask you out. just give it sometime and the men will come and you 'll be able to choose the one you want. try a new hair color or lip stick. buy somethin for yourself that looks really good on you bright colors on your clothes might bring out your eyes or hips/figure. etc....have fun with it and before you know men will start to notice you a little different. give them sweets eyes smile and pUMP IN your step. men like females who are smiling and peerky because it rubbs off on them and putts them in a good mood.. try it out good luck
2006-12-26 09:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by butta77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking for love in all the wrong places! Put God in your life first then everything else will fall right into place. :-)
2006-12-26 09:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by †♥mslamom♥† 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are these your children? adopted? do they have a father? no family at all :( i think you should try dating... if it doesnt work out then stay alone but its always worth a shot... try match.com
good luck
2006-12-26 09:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...open your heart and your mind to a new relationship when you are ready and you may meet someone...choose carefully...good luck
2006-12-26 09:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋