Dam!!! I love her... How can i make her feel the same way and show her im interested. PLEASE help!!!?

Question

ive known a girl for a long time and we share most of the same classes. Were both 16 and i really like her but i dont know if she likes me. I never really talk to her in person because im too shy and i only know her in school, we dont hang out or anything so i am worried she might not like me. She is a very intelligent, beautiful, confident, kind person through my eyes(and the lists goes on but im limited in words). Me.. im a very tall, slim person, sporty type to be honest as i like to keep fit. We sometimes catch each others eyes or rather she catches me lol. Once in class she said i was a very kind gentlemen which made me get embarrassed real bad in front of the class but i think she just say it because she is very kind. I havent asked any girl out because i have never had the guts but im willing to ask her out and only her. We only talk on msn now and then. Could she possibly like me or is she just kind, if so what can i say to her that i like her. I have no experience please help

By the way im also nervous about if she gets shocked about me asking her so suddenly because she knows that i am very very quiet with girls. Also when talking to her on msn, i usually have to talk first maybe shes busy or not interested in me? She conversates very nice but i think she is like this to everyone maybe. On msn what should i say to her because i always say the usual "hello", "how are you" which may bore her. Should i do something, i dont know like get to know her or ask her on msn.. yes, no, maybe so? At the moment she has no boyfriend but use to like long time ago.
Also thank you very very much for your time and advice because i seriously need it lol. Thanks!!

Answer 1

You need to get up the courage and ask her. The worst thing that could happen is that she turns you down. A turn down can be good, because you can build up your confidence for latter attractions that you have in your life. Just like roller skating--you don't learn how until you fall down a few times. Rejection is a part of life. This girl obviously likes you at least as a friend. So if she does reject you, she will do it in a nice way. My guess is that she will not reject you. You have caught her eyeing you and she does "im" you on msn. So she is interested in you. She maybe waiting on you to make the first move which is only right. The guy should make the first move. I am old fashioned when it comes to these things. You can start by asking her out or meeting up somewhere if you are allowed to date. Or just simply tell her that you are attracted to her and tell her why you are attracted to her and ask her does she feel the same way.
YOU can do it!!!!!!!!!!!!! I believe in you.

Answer 2

Quit procrastinating. If she is interested, she probably thinks you are not. What do 16 year olds do? Where would the two of you hang out? What about asking her when you are IMing if she wants to meet at McDonald's for a coke. If you IM you may not feel as threatened. Don't let her get away. She will absolutely think she is special if you ask even if she feels no chemistry now. She could be smitten with you reaching out to her.
Do you have someone who can run interference for you? A friend in common? Maybe try going together someplace as a group when she will be there. A movie perhaps. Just DO IT.

Answer 3

Manlaw clearly establishes that shyness is a turn-off for women.
Women are attracted to CONFIDENCE -- it is a pheromone.

Manlaw also has proven that being a gentleman in HIGH SCHOOL is a "babe-retardant". This is also known as "Nice guys finish last!"

Manlaw proclaims that women like men who are one or a combination of the following:

mysterious;
spontaneous;
athletic;
rich;
extraordinarily handsome;
popular; or
rebellious, perhaps anti-establishment.

You need to get in where you fit in if you want to have THE CHANCE of her liking you.

And in all fairness, manlaw states that your FIRST LOVE is rarely your LAST so experiment with your persona.

Answer 4

while talking on the net, ask her if maybe she'd like to catch a movie sometime. or ask for her phone no or give her your no and say call me sometime. But you can butter her up some while talking in the net. Say " I don't mean to embarrass you but I think you really do have the prettiest ________ ( whatever you like ,her eyes ,smile ect.) Or tell her she looked good today, or the other day. She''ll like to her that.

Answer 5

howdy. often women could like whilst men starts to mindset or talk along with her first, as a replace of her speaking to you. in line with threat what you're able to do is basically say hi or a splash chat on some thing like college or the climate(lol) whilst u meet her head to head after the previous due night msn chat. Then from there u could what occurs... U can never tell if she likes u or no longer... gd success!

Answer 6

You either ask her out or you don't. Don't torture yourself over it. Being a man has nothing to do with "picking up women", but it has everything to do with self-esteem and a certain amount of confidence. When you finally step up and act like a man, and you find that this girl really doesn't want you, (provided you actually ask her of course), then **** her!. Keep your ******* head up. Who the **** does she think she is anyway?. You carry on

Answer 7

First of all, you need to show confidence. Girls don't like wussy guys. Next, you CAN'T say or do or buy things to make someone like or love you. All you can do is be yourself, have confidence, talk to her like she was a long time friend.

Answer 8

just ask her out on MSN dude.