Okay, please help me with this one......At home, my friend wants to be huggy, kissy, and all over me but dosent want to be in a relationship. And dosent want us together in public.....please someone explain why?
2006-12-26 00:47:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some people are very private and not into being all over each other in public. my bf is like that. we usually don't hug and kiss in public but we do show affection in other ways. if it a matter of being in public period then i think that this person is either dating someone else or is embarrassed for some reason. if this person does not want to be in public with you then i would stop the hugging and kissing in private and explain that if you are not good enough for public then you are not good enough for private either and they need to make a decision.
2006-12-26 00:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by mel2430 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop this ! Don't let him be that way with you, respect your self, he is getting milk for free so why buy the cow ,right? He sounds like he isn't wanting you in the deep ,relationship ,loving kind of way, he sounds like he just wants to get some from you cause maybe he likes "certain things " you have that is a turn on, but then he has the ideas that if he dated you then he may get busted by some friends, or another girl he has been dating. Guys can be creeps, you play him, not him play you. You tell him when he gets grabby that you really do like him, but there is a chance there is a guy just waiting to hold me and love me and walk with me to the movies,park,or something like that and since your not wanting that with me, then I really don't think we should be in this kind of "relationship" but you are my friend, and I really enjoy being that, so we can maybe go get a bite to eat(or catch a movie) as friends. Then he'd be a real tail if he didn't said something nice and positive back, and if he don't, kick him to the curb!
2006-12-26 00:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by ladylily29 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you not the only person he with. he doesn't want to mess anything else he might have going on with another female by having both of you seen in public together, that way no matter happens or who sees him he can always be like : were just friends and we were just hanging out! wasn't like i touched or kissed her or anything and no one wont ever have proof to confront him because he did everything behind close doors. either drop him like the dog he is or you better use protection because you don't want/ need any of his nasty ST D's
2006-12-26 00:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by butta77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are good enough at home you are good enough in public......If he does not want a relationship then you do not hug or kiss him at home.........He is very self centered and you should not play into it.........Tell him to go find someone who desires to be a friend with benefits and find someone who will treat you the same way at home or in public...some who desires to be in a relationship......someone who earned your caring.....
2006-12-26 00:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by shortieperez1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Manlaw establishes that the pursuit of "bedroom gymnastics" takes precedence over pride in your mate.
The fact of the matter is your friend believes the following about you:
"You're good for screwing but NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR VIEWING."
You might want to talk to your sisterhood about how to handle his interpretation of manlaw, but IT IS what IT IS.
You should be acutely aware of how you should respond to such treatment.
2006-12-26 00:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry 2 break it 2 u hun, but this guy is using u, he doesn't really love u. so get rid of him asap. 4 ur own sake.
2006-12-26 00:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by pickles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this means he is probably embarassed to be seen with you or just doesnt want a relationship.
sorry, but thats usually the truth.
2006-12-26 00:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by kt! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are just a door mat to him... move on... let him find a new door mat...you need to find someone special like yourself.
2006-12-26 00:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by momof3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm well that dosen't sound good....you deserve much better ...kick him to the curb!
2006-12-26 00:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by snickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz he don't wanna his friends or others to know that u r his darling.
2006-12-26 01:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Cupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋