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Does he love me? Does he cheat on me? Why didn’t he call? What does he mean?
How to forget him? Why can’t he understand? Etc

It’s so frustrating to have a relationship.

If it is so, why do people still date?

Isn’t it good to just stay in this way…, the way you’ve been adored n treated like a princess? Once, we’re in a relationship for a certain period, things started to change. The romance started to fade…
Once I love that person and understand him more.., the more I’m into that relationship, the more hurt I get.

I am a loving person. I love and give my heart n soul. I’m emotional. I cry watching sad love movies, I cry for my friends who are heart-broken.

I know Chad loves me but he couldn’t treat me the way I needed to be treated.
So many tears I’ve cried...
So many sleepless nights…
I ‘m just so tired.

Without someone who frustrates you but while you can still have those who care about you a lot. Isn’t it just nice? Stress-free!?

2006-12-25 23:55:07 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Am I just too weak?
Or
Have I not met the right guy yet?

2006-12-25 23:55:30 · update #1

9 answers

You are not wrong!
why do you always have to blame yourself? you're a wise girl.
Chad is juz some stupid idiot fuccks!

2006-12-26 05:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by Breakdancer 1 · 0 0

You sound disheartened. Keep trying though, when the right guy comes along, you will know that all the rest of the agony was worth it.

Its true that things cool off after awhile, however, when its someone really special, there is a warm and deep abiding love that takes the place of the initial heat of passion. In a long term, loving relationship, you begin to bond through your shared experiences and hopes for the future. The passion may ebb, but then it spikes, it goes in cycles.

There are so many reasons for you to keep trying. Number one with a bullet: You deserve someone who will make you feel as special as you are. Good luck!

2006-12-26 08:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0 1

I don't know why it is but young people seem to think that they need to tie themselves down to just one person ,,,,, The smartest thing a young person can do anytime is to establish as broad a range of acquaintance as then can ,,,, This enables then to make a smarter and better decision as to who they really want when they are ready later on for a more serious or involved relationship ,,,, Don't be so ready to get involved with just one person ,,,,,, There are allot of fish in the pond ,,,, Try meet as many as you can ,,,,, Don't be in such a hurry ,,,, You'll always have enough time commit yourself later ,,,, You have the rest of your life to do this so in the mean time play the field so to speak ,,,, and have fun ,,,,,

2006-12-26 09:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I believe that ur Kind of Dumb ( no offense) but u have an opportunity to be with someone nice , with a good heart and u know who Im Talking about ( offensive to all) "J" and u wont give him a chance .. u seem very sweet and smart but not too bright and u keep complaining ..... give him a chance or shut up

2006-12-26 11:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

You haven't met the right guy yet. I promise you that. I don't know why or how I'm so sure, because I've never seen proof of it... but at this moment I do truley believe that when you find the right person, they won't take you for granted.

If someone as lovely, as disarming and delicate, as precious and rare and exquisite as you can't be loved, really loved... then what's the point of love?

I can accept the possibility that I don't deserve to be loved and happy.

But the idea that it won't happen for someone like you? That makes me sick. I don't believe it.

2006-12-26 08:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 1 2

You probably haven't met the right kind of guy (and btw, there's no 'right' and 'wrong' guy, just different gradations from totally unsuitable to totally compatible, with lots in between). That and being in a so-so relationship is better than the agonizing loneliness of being single, right?

Nice picture:)

2006-12-26 07:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

You are a caring person and that sensitivity in your heart is something that a guy won't be able to really understand until he has matured enough to see it himself. Often, guys take longer to figure out life and how to relate to others. Your caring heart is something that he just hasn't been able to understand yet.

2006-12-26 08:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0 1

You have not met the guy YOU deserve yet! Keep looking and don't just settle for anyone!

2006-12-26 12:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

cause it wont be the same as those who love from the one who really loves you. once your entered a relationship.. sacrifices must be made but the rewards are benefiting.

2006-12-26 08:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by AutumnMemoirs 3 · 0 1

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