2006-12-25 23:20:10 · 30 answers · asked by mared 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Hmmm. tough one ! Its obvious that your husband no longer pays attention to you or maybe it defintely has become less. You on the other hand have found someone who has the time and inclination for you. Its obvious that your new friend is better any day ! But work things out with your huband - bring back the romance. It will definitely work. As for your new friend, make him your buddy.... he cant take your husband place and he wouldn't want to also. Keep him and enjoy the time !
2006-12-25 23:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by aurora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband was your initial choice, the poor man married you to have a family with you and live a happy life at your side as your husband.
There are many handsome men out there, handsomer than your husband as there are many women out there more beautiful than you. Must a husband or wife each time they meet someone handsomer fall in love with that person? Can you imagine what the family structure would be if every one of us after marriage begins to fall in love with the first passer by that carries a beautiful or handsome face? Did your mother and father or your grandparents behave in this fashion? Stop being irresponsible and concentrate on your marriage, if on the other hand you think that you cannot resist the temptation of committing adultery, then the right thing to do, is tell your husband that you are divorcing him for another man.
2006-12-26 07:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do some serious soul searching. Only you know the real situation and what you're looking for. Be honest with yourself. There are many temptions out there and promises for something better. When things aren't going as you thought they should, it's easy to fall for the temption of something better. But unless you know what it is you want, then you'll find that the temption turns out to be a real disappointment.
You have a tough choice to make. Both of them involve real risks. Make sure you're ready willing and able to take the risk and know that no matter what you choose, you may end up hurting someone badly.
2006-12-26 10:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by married2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay faithful, stay firm to yr vows. Don't stray and let that little " temptation" cost you a man that you walk down the aisle with, the man that you have choosen. If u just let yrself go and hv that fling and finds out that the other guy was a mistake.. remember, you can't turn back the clock if yr husband finds out ( mind you, he will - is human nature)...u will not only loose ur husband, yr will not even hook up with the other guy. You will end up losing both and be alone. Don't take that wrong road... always turn away frm temptations....
2006-12-26 07:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by The Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get married then? This is a huge problem you need to resolve. I would suggest you let go of this other guy and focus on your marriage - you know, the guy you made the commitment to.
2006-12-26 09:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like there is some problem in your relationship with your husband. if u think marriage is a very special bond, you have to revive the passion. ups and downs are part of life but being faithful to each other is also a part of life. u know your husband well. bring back the romance. if he is a really bad person, then that's a different story but i guess he is not.
2006-12-26 07:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should have thought of that before you married the guy. Go with what your heart tells you. Yes, you may hurt someone, but you all will be happier in the end.
2006-12-26 07:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by Molly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This thinking doesn't suit your married life. Now what is your status than try to belive that. Thinking of another guy means pushing your self into big big trouble.
2006-12-26 07:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by rockylike007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in love with someone else then why are you married to your hubby? You obviously didn't mean your vows, because if you did then you'd love only your hubby and other guys would not be important.
2006-12-26 12:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is work on your marriage. There is nothing wrong with loving the other guy but you made a vow to your husband.
2006-12-26 07:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋