Im gay. And for many years that had passed, i've never been to any relationships before...Maybe because imnot that attractive to same sex. Or maybe because im afraid to get hurt, guys always fool gays like me, you know. They just want my money, or maybe just making fun with me. But you know guys, i still hopes that mr. right do exist for me. And he will come, in His time, he will. And when that moment come, i will love him with all of my heart, I will treasure him, take good care of him, and be faithfull to him. That is-- if he really does exist. A guy that would love me for what i am, a straight man who would treat me as a girl... (sigh)Hey, you'll help me find him, right? Or you could be him, just asking,,,
2006-12-25 22:32:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call Dr. Phil..... You need help!!!!
2006-12-25 22:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by crimson_carnage 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2016-11-23 17:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a straight guy treats you as a girl, that technically makes him queer too.
My advice: Stop looking for perfection. It's only going to bring you disappointment. Love is surprising, just stop looking so hard for something so specific. You'll find the right man during the right time.
2006-12-25 22:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a sex change!
Also, until then, be a man. Gay men can be men too! (I think lol)
No one will like anyone who drips their emotions.
My guess too is, you TRY to make people like you in some way or another. Problem with that is, you'll never find someone who loves you for you, cause you don't let people meet 'you'.
Last, what you gonna do, frame him? You basically said you'll worship someone you've never met yet. Meet someone, and one day you'll be like "wow, we're in love". Don't love someone, then meet them.
2006-12-25 22:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by Rhys W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but I think the problem may be that you say you want to be treated as a girl...
You can't go after straight guys--that would be like a girl who only went after gay guys. It doesn't work, and you'll just end up being disappointed.
2006-12-25 22:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by Iris 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Take your time and don't give your heart away too quickly - that's what I tell my daughter, because I don't want her to be hurt by the callous gits that exist out there.
2006-12-25 22:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont find a straight guy that treats you like a girl hon, only old queers.
2006-12-25 22:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to have more patience. Try to be very natural. Be yourself and you should get the right guy if you wait.
2006-12-25 22:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by abcdefg 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Send your details with e-mail , I may assist you to find your Mr right .
2006-12-25 22:40:02 · answer #9 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe u have not meet the one who will want to marry a gay.
2006-12-25 22:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by boateng k 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
finding the right one in any relationship is all about patience and keeping your self esteem
2006-12-25 22:35:38 · answer #11 · answered by jafsil 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋